@theautisticcoach@actuallyautistic no (at least I try, depending on context), neither to describe myself nor others, except if they ask me to do so. I use ASD and ADHD.
As someone said it in this conversation: it's totally OK to fight ableism fiercely, but at a certain point, turning difficulties and disabilities into differences may erase the real experiences and needs of these persons. So I use divergence/diversity with care, when I have to.