@nddev@actuallyautistic I think I understand but I still can't see how to do the difference IRL 😅
Each time I face this kind of question (especially at work), I find myself in trouble, trying to decide if it's an order or not, if I'm allowed to give my opinion or not. I struggle to understand why ppl don't say things the direct way. "I'd like you to do that" would be a bit clearer while still polite.