doggle, 10 months ago @PatternChaser @PatrickWirth @UnknownOutrider @Claire @benjamincox @ScruffyDux @actuallyautistic I've been doing this and I still get responses like "I can read between the lines" or no response, it a response that doesn't address the thing etc 🤷♂️ What I'm learning to do is draw a line, be clear and not get drawn into emotional crap (assumptions, blaming etc). They can now respond any way they like and I deal with that rather than try to change it which is what I used to do.
@PatternChaser @PatrickWirth @UnknownOutrider @Claire @benjamincox @ScruffyDux @actuallyautistic I've been doing this and I still get responses like "I can read between the lines" or no response, it a response that doesn't address the thing etc 🤷♂️
What I'm learning to do is draw a line, be clear and not get drawn into emotional crap (assumptions, blaming etc). They can now respond any way they like and I deal with that rather than try to change it which is what I used to do.