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hoodlem, to mensliberation in I'm a trans man. I didn't realize how broken men are

Nobody cares, because I’m just a man. Not even my own father cares. He happily continues to see his grandkids because he doesn’t want to “take sides.” None of my cousins or other parts of my family care either. So long as I’m paying my “support.” And I can’t complain about it on social media because I’m a man. I’m a stoic. Boys don’t cry, remember?

That is the worst. So sorry you’re having to deal with that and not get support from the men in your life.

hoodlem, to badrealestate in Taking staging way too far…

The sex doll is cringe but that bathroom is nice tho

hoodlem, to asklemmy in People who keep journals or diaries, do you hand write or type?

Day One. It’s great.

hoodlem, to selfhosted in Have I been DoS'd?

Besides the CPU how was the other resource usage on your VPS? Like memory, storage, etc

hoodlem, to fediverse in Why is Lemmy World gone now?

I know they were going to start using Cloudflare, which will handle DDOS among other things. Not sure if they have started yet.

hoodlem, to kingofthehill in Voice of Dale Gribble (King of the Hill) Johnny Hardwick, Dead at 64

A little off topic but was he a smoker IRL?

hoodlem, to asklemmy in People who keep journals or diaries, do you hand write or type?

I type. I’m interested in Apple’s upcoming journal app—maybe it will be enough for me to switch from my current app.

hoodlem, to nintendo in What are you playing this weekend? 2023-08-12

Played Dragon Quest XI for a couple of hours

Yay!

Played a few levels of New Super Mario Bros. U Deluxe

It’s still in my queue :-)

I’ll be playing more Dragon Quest XI, some raiding in Pokémon Violet and Scarlet, and maybe some Super Mario

hoodlem, to asklemmy in do you turn on read reciepts in your messaging apps?

I do. If I can’t get back to you right away I’ll message and say so

hoodlem, to thinkpad in My Set Up For Work-From-Library Day

Cool to know I’m not the only one who has work-from-library days :-)

hoodlem, to tech in It’s Tesla versus everyone else in the race for EV dominance

Can Tesla separate itself from its CEO and remain viable when other automakers ramp up their EV production?

I don’t think so. Or maybe I should say, “I hope not.” I hope other EV makers overtake Tesla.

It’s surprising to me that I feel this way. I used to be a huge Tesla fanboy. I drive a Tesla.

But I can’t separate Musk’s actions from his brands. His own name was really the brand, and he has destroyed his personal name brand with his nonsense.

I’m hoping that a non-Tesla EV at a reasonable price comes along. With the auto steering ability of the Tesla. That would be the hardest to give up.

hoodlem, to greentext in once pretended to have a psychotic episode

This is what I come to this community to see.

hoodlem, to fediverse in What is the maximum number of active users on an instance before the financial burden gets too high for the admins?

that is total nonsense

While reading this thread, your comments stood out to me as seeming inflammatory. Instead of making a statement like that, maybe make a good counter argument?

hoodlem, to fediverse in What is the maximum number of active users on an instance before the financial burden gets too high for the admins?

This is a fantastic point. The more the financial burden falls on one person, the more likely it is that at some point the expense will become too great for that individual admin to carry.

So from a financial perspective it makes a lot of sense to have many small/medium sized instances rather than a few large ones.

You suggest when an instance reaches a given size, stop recommending it. Totally agree. Based on known expenses for instances, it might not be a bad idea to have a recommended threshold (number of users) at which to stop or slow signups as well.

There are several places that would need to be updated when it comes to recommending instances. One that comes to my mind right away is apps. Several apps only list the top 4-5 instances when signing up. And default to Lemmy.world. It’s not a great situation to be in, but I think we can make a change if this info gets circulated more broadly.

hoodlem, to fediverse in What is the maximum number of active users on an instance before the financial burden gets too high for the admins?

Yep, I agree. Consider the scenario of, for a number of months, donations don’t reach that 80 euro number. If the admin simply doesn’t have that 80 euros, they have much more motivation to terminate the instance immediately.

I don’t think 80 euros per month is an unreasonable “last resort” for an admin to be able to float for at least a few months if absolutely necessary to give users a heads up the instance will be shutting down.

I don’t think 80 euros per month is an unreasonable hosting bill, either. However, compare that number with the number Beehaw lists on their financials for August: beehaw.org/post/6921483. $523.79. (That’s a total cost number, not just hosting)

With all this said, I do absolutely think sites should ideally run purely from donations. However, I don’t think a prospective admin should jump in and create an instance unless they are aware of the potential costs that may fall on them, and be able to handle those costs independently for 2-3 months to give users a chance to migrate.

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