With all the health implications of alcohol that’s not a bad problem to have. Might be worth remembering that any time you do go somewhere that’s heavily “alcohol culture” there’s a lot of people there wishing they were you.
Best analogue I’ve heard is to think of it like email. Google can run Gmail, Microsoft can run Hotmail, and countless others can run their own email setups and everyone talks to each other just fine.
The fediverse is the same. Lemmy is made from a bunch of randos running their own Lemmy servers, but we all interact like it’s one big Reddit-clone.
My plan is to combine a big income with a healthy hatred for buying things. It’s working great so far, but I’ve hit the limit for what I can chuck into retirement funds so I’m not sure what I’ll do when the money number gets too big.
I’m convinced that some of the toxicity is tuned to your own contributions. I’m almost 40 and I still play League 8-10 hours a week.
Almost all of that is tipsy ARAM games, and considering I got my toxicity out years ago I find that, given I’m always positive and having a fun time, I solely run into others that are positive and having a fun time.
People might underestimate how much self sorting that game does based on behavior in their algorithms.
This is exactly me. I wish I could do something more meaningful when it hits 8pm, and the alcohol isn’t good for me in the long run, but doing something that has be completely disconnected from my responsibilities for 1-2 hours at night keeps me recharged the rest of the time.