No worries and thanks for the comments. I’ll figure out something, I always do, I just thought it would be nice to see what route others have taken with their own servers. I’m really annoyed but it seems like more people are just turning their email over to big corporations. Hell the place I work turned their email over to Microsoft and we’ve had nothing but non-stop spam, phishing attacks, outages, and the constant push of “oh if you’re not going to use a Microsoft product (on my linux machine) then we’re won’t even talk to you” in the years since then, and literally everybody in my department complains about it.