@lulu “Women’s Work, The First 20,000 Years”, by Elizabeth Wayland Barber.
Andthen everything else she wrote.
It’s ~30 years old and is not appropriately inclusive, but please read yourself into the overlap of tech and language.
FWIW, I basically sat on Yossi until he read it, and it was like lightning bolts over his head went off. Paradigm-shifting, even after ~30 years.