Women in Trump World are supposed to look like plastic mannequins. It's okay for them to be smart and professional as long as they bat their eyelashes and in subtle ways defer to men.
Ivanka is the picture of this. She is allowed some independence as long as she remembers that Daddy is the boss, and as long as she looks the way a woman is supposed to look.
What they are reading as "eye rolls" and "scowls" may simply be expressions tolerated in men but not women.