Agreed. It's tricky to write about what you don't know.
I know autistics best; have worked with autistic activists who changed the world; have direct knowledge of what can happen when you poke and provoke an autistic hive mind.
But, I also instinctively trust individuals who've been marginalized, because I know their perspective and allegiance will not be clouded or compromised in ways they tend to be in the non-marginalized.
So, yes, neurodivergent perspective wins, in general.