My first bad interaction as a cyclist was from a right turn on red.
My bike got crushed, and I was told it was my fault since I was on the sidewalk (The alternative would be to share the actual lane with cars in the highway, with no room for the bike. There was no bike lane.). 20yo me was devastated to lose my only means of transportation, I didn’t have the ability to get a new bike, so I had to walk instead, this was annoying/frustrating enough to stick with me…
You see how anecdotes aren’t necessarily ways to determine this? Everyone will have different ones.