I think people have you conflated with the OP, which sucks, because the OP is quite obviously a sealion from the way that they phrase their issue, or what have you. Their issue isn’t really an open, geniune question, it sounds like they’re putting the onus on everyone else for having not educated them, and it also kind of implicitly contains the idea that they expect everyone else to fail at changing their mind. They’ve obviously looked for evidence before, or have argued about it before, and have become more entrenched, and haven’t looked further. They also slight anyone that would be arguing the opposite viewpoint more directly in order to get a rise out of them. So I think being equated with that person, especially after they’ve posted like, some pretty effective bait, is gonna get you blasted back. Their phrasing is optimized to make anyone replying to them be heated, you’re gonna take crossfire from that.
Also I wouldn’t necessarily draw the conclusion that rowling isn’t a transphobe, from the fact that you’ve been downvoted for asking that, that would be a pretty bad fallacy to make, that the people representing the argument are the best arguers for it.
Anyways, if you need evidence, I don’t have any because I don’t really give a shit about JK rowling’s shit, but I remember watching a couple contrapoints videos a while back that were pretty thorough in the way that a two hour youtube essay tends to be. Links are here and here. I don’t remember much from them, other than that they were good, and obviously she holds the opposing opinion, so take it with a grain of salt, but that’s what I’ll give you since it’s what I can remember on hand. I also seem to remember rowling hanging out with some more hardcore right wing folks, but I can’t seem to remember which specific video that was from. I wanna say shaun? Anyways, that’s all I got for you, dude, have a nice. Night, day? Have a nice time, lol