I was really hoping to hear from another trans* person!
I’m sorry to hear about your ex 😕
At first, I thought, “no, I could never accept mom. I didn’t birth them, that would feel like invading…” but later I remembered, like an idiot, “lots of moms did not give birth the their child”. I noticed at some point in the Real Life Comics, if you’re familiar, a while after Mae starts transitioning, their daughter still calls her dad, or daddy. I’ve been wondering how others feel about that.
I assume since you talked about it, your child calling you by your name isn’t weird? I suppose since it’s a chosen name maybe it feels affirming?
I’m definitely not out to my kids yet. The oldest one just started school, so 🤷♀️ no idea how, or when a good time is.
Also, if it’s not too much (dm is fine too), just out of curiosity, do the kids show any gnc signs? Before I realized myself, the oldest had some stuff that made me start questioning for him, now (probably around the same age) started some stuff that makes me wonder.
I joked with my partner that we started with 3 boys 1 girl, are we going to end up with 4 girls instead? 😅