Honestly I’m right there cranking (and overthinking) with you, that’s exactly why I thought it was best to get this sorted out sooner rather than later. I don’t think you’re overly sensitive at all, there’s a tendency for spaces that do allow self-promo to end up becoming basically all self-promo over time.
Whatever we decide it’s going to take some careful wording and probably a few judgement calls, some of which will end up being right and others wrong, and we’ll just tweak things over time.
Thanks for the input, I’m gonna leave this up for a couple of days before even thinking about making any decisions so we’ll see what the consensus ends up being!