Ah, you are running into the problem that has lead nearly all English dictionaries to become descriptive rather than prescriptive. People make up new definitions for old words and new words for new things and everyone ends up needing to define terms to uncover who is using which words in what way. While not exactly on-point, I am reminded of this piece on finding nice words for latrines and imbeciles: cambridgeblog.org/…/ableist-language-and-the-euph…