@ashtardeza@fictionable@bookstodon it's good if you've been insulated from that - I'm very glad! But there is in fact a huge push from purity culture to remove triggering content from books. Simply disbelieving others just because it personally hasn't iminged on you doesn't help.
Accepting that your experience is not universal is really important, especially when someone is saying 'hey, there's a real problem here'.
It's important to check what area of your privilege might have insulated you