Unfortunately, studying any form of therapy doesn’t automagically remove all of your own issues. Just think of all the therapists and doctors having a screw loose themselves. This subject is one of my blind spots and that’s why I’m looking for outside opinions.
Knowing her, bringing it up like in the original post would probably make her uncomfortable, and I wouldn’t want to do that without a good reason, so I’ve decided to have my feelings challenged in a neutral place first. If Beehaw decides that there’s nothing to worry about, I’ve learned something about myself and there’s no need for that talk!