TL:DR Wet; Boiler diagnostics completed; Galaxy quest rocks; Lots of love to my Bestie ! 🤗🥰
What a day, was so tired this morning that I had a quick chat with my Bestie then went back to bed for s couple of hours.
Drove over to my Mother in Laws in the pouring rain , found that I had to clean out the tiny room where the boiler lived before I could get a proper look at it!
Powered off the boiler & spent a merry 20 minutes fighting with the front cover which hadn’t been removed in years !
Got Simon our tame plumber on a video call so that he could diagnose the fault with me - turns out that the fan is dead.
Got slightly triggered when one of my MiLs’ carers rocked up, but we both had our separate jobs to do so interaction was reduced to a quick “Good Morning”.
Sorted out getting details needed for ordering the replacement fan & then had to break the news to my MiL that yon plumber could rock up next week to fit the new fan & she need to agree to that & to paying him.
An hour & a half later we finally convinced her that this was basically the only way to go.
Several triggers were hammered home & I nearly stormed out at one point when she argued that it didn’t need to be done because “I’m immune to hypothermia” , naughty words competed vigorously to be the 1st to be released upon the world, but good manners prevailed & I held them at bay!
We finally got her to agree & raced off at speed before she could change her mind !
A stop off at Costco on the way home for a much needed hot dog & a Cherry cola , followed by Xmas treat shopping helped to get my mind back into a less stressed mode !
Got home & worked with Mrs Squirrel to complete her ASD Informants report form. Thankfully she was able to fill in a lot more than my Dad did !
Bestie went to bed early again feeling rough, wish her a speedy recovery 🤗🥰
Watched ‘Galaxy Quest’ for the first time in years & enjoyed it enormously, it was interesting to see both the nods made by the movie to the space sci-fi genre & also the nods made by other later movies to Galaxy Quest.
A quick catch up on here , & sadly it was only a quick one , has led us to me writing up my diary.
Final Thoughts:
Mother in Laws like mine are the epitome of the gags made by comedians in the late 70’s !
She could be more rude (yet to receive a thank you) awkward or just plain childish if she had wanted to , thankfully she stopped just short of getting the boiler outer casing wrapped round her like a steel straitjacket !
I cannot even begin to list the triggers bounced on from a great height. I am, in retrospect , quite pleased that I recognised some of them & took appropriate steps to minimise their impact!
I may adopt the quote : “ Never give up, Never Surrender ! “ Jason Nesmith - Galaxy Quest !
Thanks to all those who are helping me on this journey, in a myriad different ways. I am thankful to each & every one of you ! 🫂 🫶🐿️🖖
@Tim_McTuffty
Ow my, you really had "one of those" days I see. Sometimes it's indeed good to recognize triggers and very good if you can deal with them before they take you over.
Sorry your MiL is like that. A thank you and a yes I'll pay would have been the one way to go... Still, you did it as best as you could, so that must have felt like a small achievement, I hope! 🤗
Yay for the forms getting a better fill in from Mrs Squirrel. Good that you'll be gettinga better picture to share with your ASD person doing the assessment with you. Fingers crossed 🤞🏻 her answers will be of help to the process.
Galaxy Quest is awesome! Glad you enjoyed it. 😊 Sleep well sweet Squirrel, you deserved it! 🤗 @actuallyautistic
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