russellmcormond, 
Asking @actuallyautistic
We have all heard the phrase: "You are either with us, or against us".
I've observed for many people, given that choice, they will not want to be perceived as against anyone so will claim they are "with".
I don't believe very many real-world scenarios are binary, so I see this as a logical fallacy https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/black-or-white .
If forced into that binary, I will always say "against" given I reject the question itself.
Is that an #Autism thing, or is that just me?