CynAq,
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Freedom lovin' NT: Yeehaw freedom! Liberty! I'll do me and you do you in your own home, right? No step on snek, right?

PDA autistic: Nope, no. Not even close.

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CynAq,
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PDA sometimes be like;

"Why do we need to breathe?"

"I'm tired AF and my left hand doesn't work correctly, doesn't mean I'll go to sleep without a fight!"

"Yay, my favorite video game, I can't wait to fantasize about playing it!"

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dave,
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@CynAq

I don't understand how those are examples of PDA. Would you mind elaborating?

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Sure!

Though note that this is my own experience of it so mileage may vary.

"Why do we need to breathe" is a tongue-in-cheek to illustrate how bodily functions can create obligations that you find difficult to address. You are watching a show, or working, and you have to pee, or you're hungry. You can't bring yourself to just get up and take care of your needs so you have a little, internal fight with yourself. As a result, you can lament the fact that you have biological functions.

Sleeping is a different flavor of that. You know you have to sleep but your brain doesn't want to let go whatever state it is in in that moment so it creates mental obstacles, preventing you from just going to bed and relaxing, which turns just falling asleep into a chore.

The other one is pretty straightforward. Very frequently I can't start doing things I really enjoy doing and really want to do because I can't shake the feeling that they are an obligation that need time and energy devoted. Part of your brain demands entertainment, another part claims it needs rest, another says you don't deserve to play because you didn't do a certain other obligation, and yet another says that the fact that you paid for that game means you HAVE TO play it so you gotta defy it.

I hope this is helpful :)

dave,
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@CynAq

That is super helpful and oddly familiar 😂

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