spika, One of the oddest things about trying to integrate the information I may be autistic is that for years I've been feeling a sense of camaraderie with the #ActuallyAutistic community for years, but haven't participated in conversations because up until very recently I believed I only had ADHD and needed to stay in my lane even when I could relate. It feels very strange and disorienting to realize maybe the reason I was relating was because I am autistic.