@marytzu@marenf@obrerx@allautistics@actuallyautistic My mother was not that...hostile?...but seriously did not understand a lot of what made me & my dad who we were. My sister is 10 yrs younger, & I was supposed to take care of her a lot, without anyone teaching me how to handle a toddler. And yup, I got yelled at a lot for being unsuccessful at it.