@AutisticAdam@actuallyautistic On the topic of being "left to get on with it" my luck was a mixture of good, mediocre, and a good bit of self-made luck. I grew up knowing I thought about things and had the same learning style as my father. He took after his mother. She took after her father. I took family advice to form habits of doing things. The most difficult advice was when I started school as eldest child Dad said, "go out and find how they do things." I found out many are only guessing!