I also ran into a really odd iptables problem... when I meshed in the second app server node using wireguard, my egress filter rule was blocking outbound traffic on both hosts. After some fiddling, out of frustration, I flushed the rules out of iptables on both hosts - so no rules. And... iptables was still blocking the outbound traffic. I ended up having to reboot each host - and once I did that, things worked ok. Has anyone seen iptables go into zombie mode before?
@jerry Oh dude, vibe. When I had it last it was hard enough to make instant ramen, can't imagine doing network infra debugging. I feel for you man, get well soon.