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petherfile

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Self diagnosed Autistic
Still finding who and where my people really are... Are they over here?

May complain about sensory nightmare children who I can't really live without.

Plays with music stuff.

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theautisticcoach, to actuallyautistic
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How do my comrades feel about haircuts?

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@theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic

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@theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic
It can be ok for cleaning sometimes, smell bothers me though.

I have sensory issues with the smell/taste. It all may as well be methylated spirits to me. Can not manage to drink anything at all. Even cocktails that people tell me "it doesn't even taste like it has any alcohol in it at all" are just too horrible. I'd be more able to eat my own vomit than drink anything alcoholic.

Does that mean I don't have a relationship with alcohol or... A really good or really bad relationship depending on your viewpoint?

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@theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic routine saves me. Unless routine changes with covid19 and I get a kidney stone... That wasn't fun.

theautisticcoach, to autisticadvocacy
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Do you see Autistic Inertia as a "symptom" of being #ActualyAutistic or is it something that you see as being connected to dysregulation?

#AskingAutistics @actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics @autisticadvocacy

petherfile,
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@theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics @autisticadvocacy No. I've always seen it as a way a describing a state of being. I think there are multiple ways of getting to that state. How I got there I couldn't always say.

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@actuallyautistic Does anybody know how to easily find cleaners who will tidy my house as they clean?

I'm loosing a cleaner in a few weeks (change of career it seems) and need to look for someone new. If they will tidy as they go that would be a real help because I don't have the spoons to tidy everything after my kids, there is always stuff where it shouldn't be. I did have a cleaner that just worked with a per hour rate and she got to what she got to once, but most cleaners seem to want to do a fixed price this what we clean for this money type thing and will only clean around things and not put them away - that's not what I really need at home. I'm concerned this group is too geographically broad to get a good useful response, but here I am asking anyway.

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