Spock is a common name on Vulcan. Literally, L'Roy Spock was the worst time agent the federation had, and also the best. He worked as a roadie for the Beastie Boys, which allowed him plenty of excuses to travel around the globe on his missions fighting a group of Kelvan pirates. Unfortunately, he didn't understand what a "blunt" was, which is how he ended up on an album.
Any fan of the Beastie Boys knows this. Who else was going to build them a giant robot in Tokyo? WHO DO YOU THINK WAS PILOTING IT?! Why do you think there was a giant tentacle monster, who was actually a Kelvan!
There are programs out there (varies by state and county) which will allow you to be paid as a caregiver for your mom. That should alleviate some of the strain of caring. There are also services out there for in house caregiving assistance, which is lower cost than a care home.
County health agency should also be able to provide information on how to get your mom on disability, which opens up a wide range of program options.
Best to contact your county health agency for more information. They will have the scoop on your best local options.