Ahaha. As a Canadian now living in America I am laughing over your intro to your comment. I am working on this myself because I often get caught up in this I’m sorry narrative myself. I don’t k kw why I do it. Perhaps my whole life of constant feeling I need to apologize for my own behavior. Who knows. But I’m getting better and trying to at least change the narrative of my words to be more appropriate to the situation.
I followed another group over here that shut down the subreddit for good so was happy to see the butterfly pop up when I was searching for communities. I hadn’t done too much posting yet as i only found this group at the beginning of the year but its nice to have people that understand to talk too.
I also found this group on discord so that was cool. Anyways, happy to be here as I’m done with reddit. See how lemmy goes.