Thanks, you raise a good point. I think I’d feel more pride if I felt more able to participate, but as it is I’m not comfortable opening myself up to constant attack just because I have an opinion. But the best we can do is try, I suppose.
I really struggle with fandoms and the entitlement of gamers. The loud minority (I hope) is so insufferable I can’t get over my social anxiety to even make online friends. No space feels safe, and even inclusive communities are filled with people complaining about shit.
It’s exhausting, and it makes me feel association guilt for being a part of such a vitriolic hobby.