Are trans people more likely to assault than the rest of the population? The fear you feel is implemented by societal norm and you are attempting to justify it which makes your standards way less than for changing your mind. What would change your mind on this is what you need to figure out. Then you ask yourself if that’s a reasonable amount of skepticism. You can work through your bias and become a better and less hateful person. I believe in you.
It’s really not that hard to understand why one is problematic and the other one isn’t. The only reason someone would have an issue with trans people is by inventing some “threat” to justify outdated and harmful societal taboos.
I do it at home but I’ve been known to stop to my local equivalent of Starbucks instead every once in a while when I don’t have the time to set up the espresso machine and milk maker and then clean the whole thing afterwards.
Just block linux communities, it’s been quite the improvement of my personal experience. Nothing against linux communities, they are just not my people.