So, I guess Squabbles imploded.
Glad I didn't invest time/emotions over there.
Still digging on kbin's "feel" more than any other, and I'm glad I found a place to park for a while.
@CorrodedCranium another reddit alternative, but run by one person (opposite of kbin/lemmy).
He claimed to champion "free speech" and users took that to mean hate speech was the norm. It devolved rapidly.