sara, (edited )

What does shaking your ass at a private party have to do with your academics? This is the dumbest situation. This poor girl.

Coasting0942, (edited )

It has everything to do with it because god said so:

“They basically told me that I should be ashamed of myself,” Timonet told a local news outlet. “That I wasn’t basically following God’s ideals, which made me cry even more.” “I felt like my life was over.”

Guys, it’s the same rules as any underaged closet atheist. Study your ass off, become financially independent, then twerk in front of your god fearing scholarship committee

thefartographer,

Sounds like someone dodged a bullet! Bullet-dodge ass-dance!

wolfkin,
@wolfkin@mastodon.social avatar

@Coasting0942 @sara ooooooh. This is a religious scholarship? or a religious school? Alrighty then at least that makes sense.

sara,

It appears to be a public high school.

Cryophilia,

A public high school in Louisiana, so essentially a Christian school.

Uranium3006,
@Uranium3006@kbin.social avatar

Religion is cancer

seitanic,
@seitanic@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Christianity is cancer. My religion supports your right to twerk.

Spaghetti_Hitchens,

R'amen

Zoidsberg,
@Zoidsberg@lemmy.ca avatar

I am interested in your religion

seitanic,
@seitanic@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

It’s Satanism.

Zoidsberg,
@Zoidsberg@lemmy.ca avatar

I’m in.

Cethin,

Satanism is only necessary because religion is cancer though. Just like cancer, we need to use another thing that kills to kill it. I’m 100% in agreement with Satanism’s tenants, but it’s because they’re just humanist ideals wrapped in the garb of religion to use religion as a tool.

seitanic, (edited )
@seitanic@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

All religions are tools. Saying “religion is cancer” overlooks all of the good things that people get out of religion, such as a community with shared values that helps each other. If you can have a religion without superstition and dogma, where’s the harm? It’s not religion that’s cancer. It’s superstition and dogma.

Cethin,

Sure, but the term religion implies superstition and dogma. It’s literally part of the definition. What is religion without that? Community and tax exempt status? The former is just called community (which also implies shared values) and the latter is mostly a scam.

I’m not saying good things can’t come from religion, but they don’t come because they are religious. Any good they do is done regardless (or often despite) the supernatural beliefs.

seitanic,
@seitanic@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Sure, but the term religion implies superstition and dogma. It’s literally part of the definition.

Definitions have to comport with reality, not the other way around. Satanism is not a social club. We have holidays, we have rituals, we have ministers who conduct wedding ceremonies. We even have church services.

Cethin,

I want to let you know I’m not the one downvoting you. I disagree, but I’m not downvoting.

Personally, I don’t think The Satanic Temple should be considered a religion. I think the term has been watered down, particularly in the US, because our laws are stupid. As long as there is an incentive to be called a religion it should be, but there shouldn’t be an incentive. Why should anyone’s beliefs be valued more because they’re tied to (usually at least) supernatural beliefs?

TST was created as religious satire. That’s the reason for the holidays, riguals, and other services. They need to conform to the appearance of a religion to work as a religion for their own purposes. That isn’t to say these are bad or wrong. They’re just as valid as any other religion. It’s just that the belief that it’s founded on is humanism, not something supernatural.

seitanic, (edited )
@seitanic@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Why should anyone’s beliefs be valued more because they’re tied to (usually at least) supernatural beliefs?

TST agrees with you. In fact, this is almost word-for-word what it says in the FAQ under the question “If you don’t believe in the supernatural, how is TST a religion?”

TST was created as religious satire. That’s the reason for the holidays, riguals, and other services.

What convinced you of this?

Cethin,

No, I agree with that. It’s religious satire. That’s why I included the parenthesis.

CarlsIII,

I mean if you’re going to be that pedantic about a comment that doesn’t strike me as intending to be nuanced and specific, there are versions of Christianity that are fine with twerking too

seitanic,
@seitanic@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

People say “religion” when they mean “Christianity”. This A) isn’t fair to other religions and B) helps to enforce Christian hegemony.

CarlsIII,

People also say “Christianity” when they mean “evangelicalism.”

seitanic,
@seitanic@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

That, too.

assassin_aragorn,

Oh that really pisses me off. The poor girl!

homesweethomeMrL,

You ain’t from around FoxNews Parish, is ya?

sput

mateomaui, (edited )

theguardian.com/…/louisiana-student-punished-by-s…

was seen dancing at a private homecoming afterparty on 30 September, behind a friend who was twerking.

she wasn’t even the one twerking

sara,

For fucks sake. I hope her family calls the ACLU.

Chunk,

Seems like the easiest way to get into a really good school would be to sue, whip up a media frenzy, and frame it through a feminist lens. Write an essay about overcoming adversity by standing up for what is right, no matter the cost.

BOOM easy admissions.

kautau,

Yeah if the school tried to honor what the principal is doing that will be a PR nightmare for them. Honor the scholarship, admit her, do what’s right

mateomaui, (edited )

I’d get the dance team members in on it for vaguely impugning their reputations, because when asked why nothing happened to them, the answer more or less had the implied subtext “that’s fine for them because we expect them to act like hoes, but you’re our hood ornament and should behave better.”

edit: in case anyone is unclear on my position regarding twerking

https://i.imgur.com/QgXjeCw.jpg

kautau,

I agree. She’s literally getting punished for having fun with her friends at a dance party. And her friends should get the same restitution because they were also, having fun. God forbid this incredibly intelligent girl go on to be anything but an avenue for childbirth, or her friends don’t follow the same path

DLSchichtl,

Let’s just hope she never tries to run for senator anything. Lord knows they’re not allowed to dance.

joystick, (edited )

It sounds like a religious private school, so good luck.

AdmiralShat,

Its Walker High School, a public school.

…wikipedia.org/…/Walker_High_School_(Walker,_Loui…

“They basically told me that I should be ashamed of myself,” Timonet told a local news outlet. “That I wasn’t basically following God’s ideals, which made me cry even more.”

The principal inserted their religion into their job at a public school.

wizardbeard,
@wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Well that sounds like a damn easy win for a court case.

DLSchichtl,

You’d think, but these days I wonder.

AlecSadler,

This is infuriating.

Rally,

It’s crazy. She lost benefits over something somebody else did. I can’t make sense of it. The dogma and brining faith and religious righteousness into everything is out on hand and needs to stop

Rally,

I tell my kids all the time. Do not do anything you don’t want caught on camera. In this world anything can be brought up against you in your future.

ViewSonik,

Or even writing on social media.

Rally,

Sometimes yes. Look at how the comments on this got taken and twisted.

Fact is this girl was doing nothing wrong but due to others beliefs she has lost something she has worked hard for.

wildginger,

Your comments didnt get twisted, stop acting like you didnt know what you were implying

CarlsIII,

Fact is this girl was doing nothing wrong

In your own words, according to you, she did do something wrong: she did she wouldn’t want being filmed. (Note: she wasn’t actually the one twerking.)

Look at how the comments on this got taken and twisted.

Nobody twisted your comments. We just read what you wrote and considered the context in which you wrote it. (That last detail is something you seem to have not done.)

TheMauveAvenger,

But also, like, dancing with your friends shouldn’t ruin your future because your school system imposes their religious values as a moral “code”.

Caradoc879,

A PUBLIC school system. Parents should sue the absolute fuck out of the school for using religion to justify a punishment.

ech,

Assumed it was a christian school based on her comment. A public school pulling this is absolutely unacceptable.

FuglyDuck,
@FuglyDuck@lemmy.world avatar

And unconstitutional.

ech, (edited )

That would be why it’s unacceptable, yes.

Decoy321,

There are many other reasons why this is unacceptable.

Rally,

Yup I hope they bring up a legal case against the school and principal.

wokehobbit,

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  • Earthwormjim91,

    Where do private schools come in to this?

    It was a PUBLIC high school that pulled her scholarship. Learn to read you fuckin troglodyte.

    thefartographer,

    Don’t insult wokehobbit, they called me a bitch and I’m soooooo close!

    My kink is being insulted by the illiterate.

    Entropywins,
    @Entropywins@kbin.social avatar

    It's a public high school buddy...

    Uranium3006,
    @Uranium3006@kbin.social avatar

    We must destroy religion. They won't stop shoving it down our throats

    DrCatface,
    @DrCatface@lemmy.ml avatar

    hard agree some poor kid getting molested by a priest praying to cold dead silence… either gods sending kidfuckers to earth or he’s just standing by and watching it happen. I feel like churning down a burch

    Uranium3006, (edited )
    @Uranium3006@kbin.social avatar

    The church blames gay people for child rape while they add another file to the secret filing cabinet where they keep all the coverup records

    Rally,

    100% agree kids should be allowed to be kids and do things like dance and have fun. Reminds me of back in the day comments like “leave room for Jesus” when dancing and “Rock n roll is from the devil” its fricking 2923 keep your religion out of my life

    Caradoc879,

    Victim blaming? Shame on you.

    HYPERBOLE_TRAIN,

    Stop. Putting. Words. In. People’s. Mouths.

    Shame on you.

    Caradoc879,

    I. Use. Periods. After. Every. Word. Because. I. Think. It. Makes. Me. Look. Smart. But. Really. I. Just. Look. Like. A. Fucking. Idiot.

    morphballganon,

    Rally’s comment is generally good advice, and doesn’t place blame on anyone.

    Caradoc879,

    It’s in response to a girl getting punished for being recorded doing nothing wrong. Read the room and the context. It absolutely is victim blaming.

    morphballganon,

    I have read the room. The victim is not here. OP got the article from a news source.

    THUS… we don’t need to worry about hurting her feelings. How else CAN we contribute? Well, one constructive way is to share advice for how to prevent this. It’s a good practice to not do or say things unless you’re comfortable being recorded.

    I agree her punishment is inappropriate, but I don’t control that high school. All I control is whether I do things I don’t want recorded or not.

    Decoy321,

    How about if we rephrase it as “don’t do things that someone else can victimize you for.” Can you see how there can be a correlation with victim blaming?

    The contextual difference here is that the woman in question was dancing at a private party. That is something that’s okay to be comfortable with, even if a friend is recording. Thus, the problem here isn’t that she shouldn’t have done that, but that others victimized her over it.

    That’s why Rally’s advice is getting criticized. It’s getting correlated with “don’t do things you enjoy in private with your friends because someone terrible might do terrible things to you.” This is genuinely terrible advice.

    Kase,

    Agreed. If you read this story and your first thought is ‘she shouldn’t have been dancing on camera in the first place’, that’s victim blaming.

    Rally,

    I never thought that or said that. You made a large jump there. All I did was to share guidence i provided to my family. It’s not my place to blame anyone here.

    Kase,

    Alright

    Caradoc879,

    But you did place blame. Are you really that fucking daft?

    Rally,

    I guess we can disagree. There was no blame, only the advice I gave to my family.

    CarlsIII, (edited )

    He at least thinks we are

    Rally,

    It’s just advice for my kids that I shared. It may be good or bad advice based on your opinions and experiences. Take it, or leave it. But how do you jump to victim blaming?

    wildginger,

    Because of the context of the post you left that comment on?

    Come on dude, you managed to put pants on today right? We know you arent as stupid as youre trying to pretend you are.

    ViewSonik,

    Lol… wow. The advice from rally is sound and totally correct. You took it the wrong way and thought he was saying it was her fault. He is saying don’t even put yourself in that situation by being filmed if you can avoid it. If you do not understand that then you’re truly lost. Also, im blocking you because Im sure you’ll misunderstand this too.

    wildginger,

    If youre blocking me, be a big kid and do it. No one cares to hear it.

    But if youre as dumb as rally is pretending to be, Id be surprised if you figure out how.

    Rally,

    I never said that. I never made a comment about the person in the article. Just my life experience. We are all free to do whatever want. I would never yuck somebody else’s yum. It’s just sad in this age almost everything you do can be brought up against you in the future. I just want my kids to be aware of this and that is all.

    TomaTomaToma, (edited )
    @TomaTomaToma@lemmy.ml avatar

    2003: don’t do anything stupid, maybe there’s some camera that can record it.

    2023: record me with the camera, I’m going to do something stupid

    Caradoc879,

    Teenagers dancing is doing something stupid? Are you fucking stupid?

    FuglyDuck,
    @FuglyDuck@lemmy.world avatar

    This would entirely depend on the dance in question.

    I don’t think stupid dances are going to hurt anything though. At least, not until one’s kids find it when they’re in HS…

    Uranium3006,
    @Uranium3006@kbin.social avatar

    Indeed. This is completely insane

    Syrc, (edited )

    I think twerking is pretty stupid, but I have nothing against stupid things. I love doing them and as long as you’re not hurting other people you should be free to be as stupid as you want without anyone judging you.

    Rally,

    So true

    ono,

    BIG BROTHER IS WATCHING YOU

    AltheaHunter,

    My parents loved reminding me of this. Now I have debilitating social anxiety.

    Rally,

    Sorry

    starman2112,

    I don’t give a shit if someone catches me dancing on camera. There’s nothing wrong with it, who cares?

    MelodiousFunk,
    @MelodiousFunk@kbin.social avatar

    God. God cares. He loves everyone and is omnipotent, but also really judgy and bitchy because reasons. And he's watching you so closely that you can reach out and touch his bloodshot ethereal eyeball. Well, if it wasn't ethereal, anyway. So don't ever let that aspirin fall from between your knees. He'll know if it does. And send plague of Karens to shame you. But only because he loves you and demands obedience.

    zurohki,
    Syrc, (edited )

    He’ll know if it does. And send plague of Karens to shame you.

    No no, first the Karens have to find that out, God won’t tell them even if he’s literally aware of everything that happens in the world. He’s kinda lazy if you ask me.

    Uranium3006,
    @Uranium3006@kbin.social avatar

    Religious crazies, apparently. We need to take away their power

    Rally,

    I completely agree with you. The sad fact is that many people care. I don’t condone it. I have done a lot of dumb things that would have a large life impact on my life if they were caught on camera.

    Catoblepas,

    She didn’t even do anything. Someone behind her was twerking on camera.

    Rally,

    I know it’s crazy and is sad.

    CarlsIII,

    Writes down “don’t poop”

    Rally,

    That is a good one not to do on camera

    CarlsIII,

    Well I guess if I get recorded pooping it’s my own fault right?

    Rally,

    LOL right…or some crazy airbnb owner.

    CarlsIII,

    Do not do anything you don’t want caught on camera.

    Rally,

    Wow, I went to sleep, and my comment got bombed to hell.

    Let me clarify to anyone reading these comments. I don’t agree at all with what happened to this girl. It’s unfair and wrong on so many levels. The principle comments are gross and uncalled for.

    All I did was put advise out there that I give to my children to help navigate that world as we see it.

    kurosawaa,

    No reasonable person should be afraid to be filmed dancing. The video was completely innocent and the principal at this school is clearly a religious creep.

    In this world today there is also no way to avoid being filmed anyway.

    CarlsIII, (edited )

    You expect us to believe your comment has nothing to do with the article, and just by coincidence, you happened to post “I tell my kids not to do anything they wouldn’t want being filmed” in response to an article about someone facing consequences for somebody else doing something that was filmed, and we are all the bad guys for unfairly assuming tha your comment had anything at all to do with the article it was posted in response to?

    Rally,

    They are related of course. That is the point of a discussion post. But the jump to victim shaming is improper. I am not saying anyone is a bad guy here, never have or implied that. Just stating my point and people are assuming things about my post. I’ll take it as a learning lesson to be clearer in the future.

    CarlsIII, (edited )

    They are related of course.

    I’m curious to know what you think the connection is.

    I’ll take it as a learning lesson to be clearer in the future.

    Thats probably a good idea.

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