SirStumps,
@SirStumps@lemmy.world avatar

So the girl in question wasn’t twerking, it was person “friend” in front of her in the video. She was just dancing. I consider myself pretty logical in most things and this doesn’t make sense.

The person in question did not commit any offense her self based on how the news article read. If she herself was doing something that did not promote a good image it would be understandable but this was not the case.

JustZ,

Obviously any government action based on “promoting a good image” would violate the First Amendment.

SirStumps,
@SirStumps@lemmy.world avatar

I can agree to a certain point but as this particular scholarship is only handed to two people a year I imagine the requirements are very high and the standard at which one conducts themselves is taken into account. Never the less I do not understand and cannot condone punishing those that do not deserve it.

This girl must have worked hard for such a scholarship and to be denied what she earned for such a bizarre reason just seems petty and small.

Supanova,

How is this allowed? Are they gonna kick people out of college because they had sex once?

cosmicrookie,
@cosmicrookie@lemmy.world avatar

Lessons learned in Afghanistan i guess. Christian Taliban

azurefirefly,
@azurefirefly@lemmy.basedcount.com avatar

Good

PersnickityPenguin,

Wow, imagine being called a “hood ornament of the school.”

FormerlyChucks,

Thot patrolled

BilboBargains,

Law and Order, special THOT unit.

PrettyFlyForAFatGuy,

“That I wasn’t basically following God’s ideals, which made me cry even more.” So a state institution imposing religious virtues on a student? How is that constitutional, something for the ACLU perhaps?

cosmicrookie, (edited )
@cosmicrookie@lemmy.world avatar

Sounds like something the US would invade a country for doing

JustZ,

Uhh what?

fne8w2ah,

First was the teacher with the OF, now this?

Clbull,

That principal needs his hard drive forensically checked by the police.

cricket97,

thot patrolled

Fallenwout,

Fire that principal. He’s a bad example for students.

JasSmith,

We really need to move to a standard which doesn’t judge people by their behaviour outside the professional setting. I suspect half the people lamenting this would be cheering it if she expressed opinions or behaviour they disagreed with. We need to have laws in place to protect people to do offensive things, or make offensive statements, which have nothing to do with their school or workplace.

trashgirlfriend,

You are correct, there is absolutely no difference between twerking and saying 6 million wasn’t enough, these are completely equivalent acts.

JasSmith,

The severity is quite different, but the premise is not. These are both offensive things to different people. Either we allow institutions to police offensive things outside their walls, or we don’t. What you’re communicating to me is you’d like to be emperor of America, and only you can fairly arbitrate these things. I’ll let you in on a little secret: everyone thinks that. That’s why we have democracy.

trashgirlfriend,

This reply is offensive to me and therefore you should be fired from your job.

CarlsIII,

The severity is quite different, but the premise is not. These are both offensive things to different people.

These are words you typed comparing twerking to support of the holocaust .

FlyingSquid,
@FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

I would say it highly depends on how it reflects on the institution. Twerking has nothing to do with any possible education she might have received. Saying that black people are unintelligent but good dancers shows the attempts to educate the student has failed them, which makes the school look bad if they get the scholarship.

Similarly, I’m fine with people who got fired for participating in January 6th. Any company that kept them on could face a major boycott and those people don’t deserve their jobs because they’re insurrectionists.

But this particular girl? Totally deserves the scholarship. Twerking is not a reflection of how she was educated.

JasSmith,

I would say it highly depends on how it reflects on the institution.

This institution felt it reflected badly on them. You’re making a lot of subjective comparisons as though they’re objective. Either the institution has the right to determine what they find acceptable, or they don’t. If they do, you have to be prepared to accept that different people value different things to you.

Hawk,

A government funded state school has no right to push their Christian beliefs onto its students, which they clearly did, as quoted in the article.

Luckily, they also have no backbone, as they immediately reinstated everything as soon as this hit the news.

bear,
@bear@slrpnk.net avatar

We understand that. What you don’t understand is that we’re allowed to criticize what they value.

wolfkin,
@wolfkin@mastodon.social avatar

@JasSmith @FlyingSquid it was a public school. And they cited religious beliefs as for why they were so offended. That's a clear violation of church and state and while it's certainly not new or unique it's not defensible or right.

cricket97,

What if they did something racist outside of a work setting?

JasSmith,

Either you support the concept of free speech, or you don’t. Such a law would need to protect all speech, not just speech you personally find permissible.

cricket97,

based

Plavatos,

The paradox of tolerance suggests we draw a line and decide some things are unacceptable to tolerate or the tolerant will be overwhelmed by the intolerant. I’m sure Poppers arguments are not without flaws but absolute free speech is a pipe dream.

There are limits to free speech in US laws already, some common examples are slander, libel, and threats. There’s also “imminent lawless action” where words inciting violence can be restricted.

Maybe I’m drawing a false correlation between the two ideas but in general I don’t think it’s so black and white as you might suggest.

vanya913, (edited )

The paradox of tolerance is some philosopher’s idea, not some sort of axiom. We really need to stop quoting it. It’s not even the only idea of its kind. There are several philosophers with more nuanced takes.

bear,
@bear@slrpnk.net avatar

The philosopher was correct. We should keep quoting it.

vanya913,

Says who? It’s okay to agree or disagree with the dude, but citing him as if it’s a source or evidence of something is just plain wrong. And that’s how the paradox of tolerance is usually brought up.

bear,
@bear@slrpnk.net avatar

Wait, are you arguing with the concept that intolerance seeks to destroy tolerance?

vanya913,

I am more so arguing that in the pursuit of not tolerating the intolerant, we just end up becoming intolerant ourselves. That’s what Rawls argues.

But more specifically, defining and understanding what constitutes intolerance is a non-trivial challenge that is often ignored. Oftentimes, a person or view is labelled as intolerant when it does not see itself that way. Oftentimes, the reality is more nuanced.

For example, France’s ban on wearing religious symbols within schools can be seen as intolerant. That’s how I see it, at least. But others could argue that because the religions themselves are intolerant, this is completely permissible. The followers of these religions might not see themselves as intolerant. And this can keep going back and forth with each side calling the other intolerant.

If the paradox of tolerance is followed, everyone has free reign to condemn and suppress whomever they deem intolerant, just leading to more intolerance. Because there isn’t a way to prove that something or someone is objectively intolerant, it just leads to name calling.

You can see this kind of discourse online all the time. You go to a left leaning forum and find them calling the other side fascists. You go to a right leaning forum and find them calling the other side fascists as well. I’m not trying to “both sides” this, I’m trying to demonstrate that the paradox of tolerance isn’t actually helpful when it comes to decreasing intolerance.

bear,
@bear@slrpnk.net avatar

I am more so arguing that in the pursuit of not tolerating the intolerant, we just end up becoming intolerant ourselves

Intolerance of intolerance is not the same thing as intolerance of tolerance. The former stops when other forms of intolerance no longer exist; the latter stops when tolerance no longer exists.

But more specifically, defining and understanding what constitutes intolerance is a non-trivial challenge that is often ignored. Oftentimes, a person or view is labelled as intolerant when it does not see itself that way. Oftentimes, the reality is more nuanced.

All we can do is give it our best try. It’s better than doing nothing at all out of fear that we can’t get everything perfectly right all the time. Intolerance definitionally seeks to destroy tolerance; thus it follows that if we do nothing, tolerance will be entirely lost.

You can see this kind of discourse online all the time. You go to a left leaning forum and find them calling the other side fascists. You go to a right leaning forum and find them calling the other side fascists as well.

The good news is that you don’t have to simply take people at their word when they say things. Humans have the unique capacity for judgement.

I’m trying to demonstrate that the paradox of tolerance isn’t actually helpful when it comes to decreasing intolerance.

I don’t agree, but even so, you haven’t proposed an alternative yet.

Plavatos,

I did state that his argument was not without its flaws. It still serves its purpose as a thought experiment about how a society should handle radically dissenting opinions.

I won’t pretend to know the answer in practice and censorship makes me uneasy but my debate is against free speech absolutionists.

Nobsi,
@Nobsi@feddit.de avatar

No, why?
Freedom of speech does not mean freedom of consequences…

bear,
@bear@slrpnk.net avatar

Amoral isn’t a virtue worth upholding. We should encourage good things and discourage bad things.

cricket97,

I think having the freedom to express stupid opinions is actually a good thing

bear,
@bear@slrpnk.net avatar

Good news, you have that freedom. But everybody else has the freedom to decide not to associate with you for it.

cricket97,

I don’t think public institutions should be able to make that call. Private institutions and individuals, sure.

bear,
@bear@slrpnk.net avatar

Why not? Public institutions are supposed to serve the public’s interests.

cricket97,

Because I don’t want to give some unelected bureaucrats the ability to discommunicate someone because they said something stupid. Public goods are meant to serve the public, even if they have bad opinions.

bear,
@bear@slrpnk.net avatar

I think the limit should be pretty high, but I’m fine with, as an example, people who spread abject hatred being rejected by most parts of society. I think not spreading hatred against your fellows is an integral part of the social contract.

cricket97,

What about someone who doesn’t think that transgender women are women? Should they be rejected by society for holding that view?

bear,
@bear@slrpnk.net avatar

Yep.

ilikekeyboards,

I’m going to make an ai video of you calling me a n***** and send it to your bosses.

See how this works? How do we even know it was her twerking?

wionews.com/…/spain-minor-girls-fall-victim-to-de…

100_percent_a_bot,

Wdym you want people to have principled opinions on cancel culture? We’re on the internet, here we doxx hold people accountable for the things we don’t like and complain when the wrong people face repercussions of their behavior outside their jobs

Blackmist,

In my day we did all our racism anonymously or down the pub, rather than online, under your real name, next to a photo of your real face.

applejacks,
@applejacks@lemmy.world avatar

this one simple sentence that destroys a lemmy user’s argument

EmperorHenry,
@EmperorHenry@discuss.tchncs.de avatar

Fuck that asshole principal.

I bet his wife caught him jacking off to the video and so he had to react like that to save face.

cricket97,

weird comment

ElBarto,
@ElBarto@sh.itjust.works avatar

What, you haven’t had to ruin someone’s life because you got caught jacking it to them?! You need to live man!

Seasoned_Greetings,

It appears that the principal is backpedaling really hard. Even so, the kid still lost out on the scholarship because she missed the deadline to apply through the school.

The mother said in response to the principal’s apology,

“It’s too little, too late. I even told him on the phone conversation when he made it to us at noon today asking us to come into the office and he mentioned reinstating the scholarship, I let him know that the scholarship deadline was done, and the damage that he’s done to her is done. I also told him I gave them the opportunity when I came in there at 7 o’ clock the next morning, to try and rectify the situation at that point. Now, with somebody holding his hand forcing him to do something, an apology being enforced it’s too late,” said Rachel Timonet

EmperorHenry,
@EmperorHenry@discuss.tchncs.de avatar

Fuck the school system! It’s never been about educating children. It’s only about conditioning children to blindly accept what they’re told by authority.

derpgon,

From my experience, if people are not assholes, there is always a way. I’ve been accepted to a school when I missed the deadline by two weeks regardless.

Unless the school system in the USA is strict and non-negotiable.

MeatsOfRage,

Wow, when you watch the video is even more benign than this thread headline. It’s just plain dancing, nothing remotely scandalous.

Arthur_Leywin,

At this point if anyone ever brings up religion to me outside of work, I’m just gonna shit on it. Tolerating religion is morally bad and religion should be as taboo as smoking.

torpak,

Like, do it in private, but don’t bother other people with it. Seems fair.

Snowpix,
@Snowpix@lemmy.ca avatar

Religion is like a penis. You can do whatever you want with it at home, but don’t go waving it in people’s faces, and especially keep it away from children.

Arthur_Leywin,

Would you be ok with people being Nazis at home? If someone commits to an ideology at home, it affects their entire personality/interactions. I’d argue this is a form of tolerance which is bad.

torpak,

Would you be ok with surveilling everyone to make sure they are not Nazis? While I am uncomfortable with the knowledge that there are some people out there who are Nazis in secret, that is still much better than them feeling comfortable enough to be Nazis in the open.

Also I would prefer even Nazis marauding in the streets to universal surveillance, which for me at least is hardly imaginable without at least a little Nazi ideology at government level.

Also I was talking about religion which in contrast to Nazi-ideology can be benign, when practiced in private.

Arthur_Leywin, (edited )

I wasnt advocating for surveiling everyone. I was suggesting creating an atmosphere that continuously shuts down religion just like we do with Nazism. I accept that not everyone agrees with Nazis, but our general consensus is that Nazis are bad. The same cannot be said for our general consensus of religion.

torpak,

Well, as I see it, it’s only organized religion that is harmful.

Arthur_Leywin, (edited )

These groups get their legitimacy and authority by following an ideology everyone worships. There’s a reason why Scientology is seen as a stupid idea while Christianity/Islam are “ways of life.” It’s because the latter religions are popular and they become legitimate because of popularity. That’s why I think it’s really important to shame anyone who considers themselves a true religious person, to errode that legitimacy.

TexMexBazooka,

I’m a bit of an asshole, but if someone is bringing up religion in public they should be shamed

Sanctus,
@Sanctus@lemmy.world avatar

So what you can’t shake your ass if you are smart? Thats bullshit. You should be able to strip AND get your masters degree. You should be able to take bikini pics and post your published research papers. What does it matter? Our species is marked by their brown noses.

Steak,

You should be able to have an only fans and also arrest people!

Liz,

But for real, you should. I know what you’re referencing, and I see no reason why you can’t have a side job in an unrelated field as a cop.

FlyingSquid,
@FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

I’ll say the same thing I said in that thread- I have more respect for her as an OnlyFans star than I do for her as a cop and if shooting innocent black people doesn’t disqualify you from being a cop, then being on OnlyFans sure shouldn’t.

PhlubbaDubba,

Funny thing is a lot of sex workers near uni towns will actually be grad students working to pay tuition costs, and not like “doctorate in underwater basket weaving” like the right likes to try and demonize all degree paths but work degrees as, I’ve seen MBAs and Law School students doing this too.

Sanctus,
@Sanctus@lemmy.world avatar

And shit its not a bad idea. If you can pull a lot of money each night you might graduate debt free. Which, in modern times, frees you of the noose of school loan repayments. I would much rather strip than have to pay these back right now on my inflexible career salary. Now, the abuse that comes with it is not okay. But that goes along with the demonizing of these profesions.

PhlubbaDubba,

I mean there are safe routes, Tryst looks to be run by a cooperative of tech and sex workers, or at least started as something like that with the intention of making sex work as safe as possible.

Twelve20two,

Not the person you responded to, but I’m going to look into this. Thanks

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