NuclearNoggin,
@NuclearNoggin@lemmy.world avatar

dude is a creepy MFer

SCB,

People defending their friends are now “creepy.” The internet has ruined people’s brains.

abbotsbury,
@abbotsbury@lemmy.world avatar

It’s not the “defending their friend” thing people are upset with, I think you know that. Using reductionism to try and make people you disagree with look like they’re sticks in the mud “for just defending their friend!” instead just makes you look deranged for apparently glossing over or completely not caring about the “leniency for rapists” bit.

SCB,

Bro they wrote character letters for a sentencing.

That’s literally why people are mad.

abbotsbury,
@abbotsbury@lemmy.world avatar

Yes, they said good things about a rapist’s character so now their character is in question

hydrospanner,

When your friend is a rapist, yeah that’s fucking creepy, and it’s creepy you don’t think so.

If I found out tomorrow that my best friend was a rapist, not only would I be speaking out against him, he’d no longer be my friend.

SCB,

What if you believed your friend?

vis4valentine,
@vis4valentine@lemmy.ml avatar

Well, it is not as much as a “non profit fighting human trafficking” as they sell it. It is a tech org that sells facial recognition technology to law enforcement, that doesn’t really help saving kids, but rather persecute consensual and voluntary sex workers.

It is what happens when tech Bros want to try and save the world without really listening to the vulnerable people they are trying to “help”.

Now his hypocrisy was exposed for defending a convicted rapist because “he was nice to me” no shit Ashton, im sure Epstein was also nice to his friends.

Rambi,

What it is just used for prosecuting adult non-trafficed sex workers?? That’s such a ridiculous perversion of the original mission statement, what a piece of shit. “Helping” sex workers by making them go to prison lol, which is the same way police “help” people with substance abuse problems. He was also an investor in Uber so it’s adds up that he only cares for making money.

SCB,

That’s such a ridiculous perversion of the original mission statement

This is a reason to request some form of evidence from OP, rather than assume the worst of the lauded organization

GladiusB,
@GladiusB@lemmy.world avatar

The reason Epstein was undetected or untouched was because he was nice. Getting along means not getting caught. Now that doesn’t mean that everyone nice is up to something, but it means it is a reason he was able to infiltrate so many upper crust circles.

SCB,

that doesn’t really help saving kids, but rather persecute consensual and voluntary sex workers.

I’d love a citation on this if you’ve got it.

vis4valentine,
@vis4valentine@lemmy.ml avatar

Listen to a recent episode about it from the podcast There’s No Girl On The Internet.

Here’s some sources too.

Sex, lies, and surveillance: Something’s wrong with the war on sex trafficking: engadget.com/2019-05-31-sex-lies-and-surveillance…

Real Men Get Their Facts Straight: villagevoice.com/real-men-get-their-facts-straigh…

Ashton Kutcher Claims He Helped Cops Save Way More Sex-Trafficking Victims Than Authorities Say They’ve Found: reason.com/…/ashton-kutcher-plays-sex-worker-savi…

The bogus claim that 300,000 U.S. children are ‘at risk’ of sexual exploitation: washingtonpost.com/…/the-bogus-claim-that-300000-…

SEX TRAFFICKING Online Platforms and Federal Prosecutions : chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmk…

nehal3m,

His sex abuse organization was anti-child?

HerbalGamer,

I mean, I guess that’s somewhat positive…?

Nahvi,

I always thought Masterson seemed like a creep, so I didn’t pay much attention to this case when I heard about it.

Just read the article and another one it linked to regarding sentencing. It sounds like most of the jury voted for acquittal but it wasn’t unanimous so the judge declared a mistrial and then retried him.

Anyone know how this isn’t considered double-jeopardy? It sounds like the very definition of it to me. He was put on trial. The prosecutor was unable to secure a conviction, so the judge gave them another chance?

etonline.com/danny-masterson-sentenced-to-30-year…

But weeks after the trial finally started in late 2022, the judge declared a mistrial after the jury remained deadlocked. Jurors in last year’s case had leaned in favor of acquittal on all three counts against him – voting 10-2 on one count, 8-4 on another and 7-5 on the third, but were unable to reach a unanimous decision, leading to the mistrial.

US Fifth Amendment excerpt:

nor shall any person be subject for the same offence to be twice put in jeopardy of life or limb

darkmarx,

That’s how a jury trial works. You need all 12 to agree, otherwise it is a hung jury and declared a mistrial. It is then up to the prosecutor to retry the case if they want to.

It isn’t double jeopardy because the trial didn’t come to a decision. If all 12 jury members agreed, one way or another, that is the end of it. At least for that/those counts.

Nahvi,

A split decision sounds like a decision to me. The prosecutor failed to convince a jury of the defendant’s guilt. I wonder how many times someone can be tried as long as the prosecutor is able to seat at least one sympathetic juror.

I could understand retrying the case if it was found out one of the jury was on the take, but this sounds exactly like the kind of thing the 5th amendment is supposed to stop.

Oh, we didn’t pick a good enough jury to convict him this time. Let’s try again.

treefrog,

It has to be unanimous. A split decision is not an acquittal anymore than it’s a conviction.

Nahvi,

That makes sense, but the 5th amendment doesn’t mention conviction or acquittal.

Seems plain and clear that a retrial is being put in jeopardy a second time. Even my former justification of jury tampering doesn’t seem to hold up to that measure.

treefrog,

He can appeal based on these grounds.

Rather or not he wins would depend on how reasonable it was for the judge to declare the first mistrial.

Anyway, a mistrial does not apply to the fifth amendment. It’s not double jeopardy if the first trial is declared void.

In other words, a mistrial is not a trial. It’s a dud and everyone is allowed to start again.

lime_red,

A mistrial is not a definitive outcome. Not-guilty or guilty would be the definitive outcome.

Cleverdawny,

Mistrials don’t incur double jeopardy, they invalidate the trial as if it didn’t happen. It’s how the law works.

SuddenlyBlowGreen,

Wow, there a a lot of people here defending a rapist apologist.

Disappointing.

scrubbles,
@scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech avatar

People are complicated. We can say he did good things for kids while also doing bad things like defending Masterson. We can admit it must be hard for him to condemn his friend while also still saying he still needed to.

People can do both good and bad things, we can say the good things he did are good while also saying he shouldn’t have done bad things.

postmateDumbass,

People like you are not good for my pitchfork and torch business.

phillaholic,

He could have not written a letter of support or condemnation. Sometimes no comment is the right way.

Nastybutler,

*Topher Grace has entered the chat

spuncertv,

I thought he kicked himself from the server though?

XTornado,

I mean I feel one thing overweights the other… Like it was a fucking piece of paper…yeah he shouldn’t have done it. But I feel like whatever the org did matter more that a stupid written paper.

salton, (edited )

The org you speak of has lobbied heavily against end to end encryped communication. Their efforts are much more anti sex work than actual human trafficking and they sell tracking tools to police.

Mangosniper,

Exactly this. There was some good coverage in the German podcast Logbuch Netzpolitik. Ashton is also involved in companies selling software to “solve” the CSAM issue with methods the scientific community says will not solve it and most likely will make everything worse, not only in the topic but also others like privacy overall.

themajesticdodo,

Did he actually do good though? Or did you assume?

scrubbles,
@scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech avatar

Whether you like it or not Kutchers childrens charities do in fact help kids. Their software helps identify children who are being abused online and also help create tools to detect and block CSAM. But don’t take my word for it, here’s their 2022 impact report. www.thorn.org/impact-report-2022/

So yes. Turns out he’s not literal Satan and he has done good things and bad.

themajesticdodo,

But don’t take my word for it, here’s their 2022 impact report. www.thorn.org/impact-report-2022/

“…but don’t take my word for it… Take theirs!”

Funny

scrubbles,
@scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech avatar

Got it, so nothing I say is convincing. So there’s no need to continue this.

stevedidWHAT,
@stevedidWHAT@lemmy.world avatar

Life sentences are inhumane

Timeisshort,

Isn’t he part of the illegal alien and sex traffic problems from Hollywood?

stevedidWHAT,
@stevedidWHAT@lemmy.world avatar

Quite the claim to not post any evidence of outside of a letter written to the judge from a friend which might stop his friend from spending the rest of his life rotting in jail instead of getting rehab like the rest of the world does

jballs,

It’s a personal pet peeve of mine when articles reference documents with no link. I prefer to read stuff for myself and come to my own conclusions.

Link to the letters in question

Kutcher’s letter#

Honorable Judge Olmedo,

My name is Ashton Kutcher I am an actor, investor, philanthropist, and most importantly a father. I met Danny Masterson when I was 20 years old in 1998. He instantly became a friend, dedicated co worker, and role model to me. And has remained as such for 25 years.

As a friend, Danny has been nothing but a positive influence on me. He’s an extraordinarily honest and intentional human being. Over 25 year relationship I don’t ever recall him lying to me. He’s taught me about being direct and confronting issues in life and relationships head-on, resolving them, and moving forward. Danny is a person that is consistently there for you when you need him. We’ve traveled around the world together, raised our daughters together, and shared countless family moments. Not only is he a good friend to me I’ve witnessed him be a good friend to others and the kind of brother others would be lucky to have.

As a role model, Danny has consistently been an excellent one. I attribute not falling into the typical Hollywood life of drugs directly to Danny. Any time that we were to meet someone or interact with someone who was on drugs, or did drugs, he made it clear that that wouldn’t be a good person to be friends with. And for me, that was an implication that if I were to do drugs, he wouldn’t want to be friends with me, which is something I never would want to risk or jeopardize. I am grateful to him for that positive peer pressure. He also set an extraordinaryy standard around how you tteat other people. There was an incident where we were at a pizza parlor and a belligerent man entered who is berating his girlfriend. We had never met or seen these people before, but Danny was the first person to jump to the defense of this girl. It was an incident he didn’t have to get involved i:i but proactively chose to because the way this man was behaving was not right. He has always treated people with decency, equality, and generosity.

After 9-11 Danny was a huge advocate for support of the Firefighters effected by the event, rallying his friends and coworkers to pitch in however they could. Danny had his daughter a year before I had mine. He set a standard of being a hands on dad. We have spent countless

hours together with our kids and he is among few people that I would trust to be alone with my son and daughter. He’s also a dedicated and loyal husband with unwavering commitment to his wife.

We have spent hundreds of hours working together. Danny takes his job seriously. He is kind, courteous, and hard working. He treated everyone from the grips to the teamsters to the actors to the caterers as equals. He showed up on time all the time and always pulled his weight. We have also traveled around the world together promoting our work. I can honestly say that no matter where we were, or who we were with, I never saw my friend be anything other than the guy I have described.

While I’m aware that the judgement has been cast as guilty on two counts of rape by force and the victims have a great desire for justice. I hope that my testament to his character is taken into consideration in sentencing. I do not believe he is an ongoing harm to society and having his daughter raised without a present father would a tertiary injustice in and of itself. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Best,

Ashton Kutcher

jballs,

Kunis’s letter#

To The Honorable Judge Olmedo

I am writing this character letter on behalf of my dear friend, Danny Masterson, with whom I have had the privilege of sharing a significant part of my life. My name is Mila Kunis, and I am an actress, and I believe it is essential to share the remarkable influence Danny has had on my life and the lives of others.

I first met Danny during our time working together on That 70’s Show, and from the very beginning, I could sense his innate goodness and genuine nature. Throughout our time together, Danny has proven to be an amazing friend, confidant, and, above all, an outstanding older brother figure to me. His caring nature and ability to offer guidance have been instrumental in my growth both personally and professionally.

One of the most remarkable aspects of Danny’s character is his unwavering commitment to discouraging the use of drugs. His influence on me in this regard has been invaluable. In an industry where the pressures and temptations of substance use can be overwhelming, Danny played a pivotal role in guiding me away from such destructive paths. His dedication to avoiding all substances has inspired not only me but also countless others in our circle. Danny’s steadfastness in promoting a drug-free lifestyle has been a guiding light in my journey through the entertainment world and has helped me prioritize my well-being and focus on making responsible choices. His genuine concern for those around him and his commitment to leading by example make him an outstanding role model and friend.

Danny’s role as a husband and father to his daughter has been nothing short of extraordinary. Witnessing his interactions with his daughter has been heartwarming and enlightening. He prioritizes his family, education, and happiness above all else, demonstrating his unwavering commitment to being a loving and responsible parent. As a father, he leads by example, instilling in her values that reflect integrity, compassion, and respect for others.

Moreover, Danny has consistently displayed a profound sense of responsibility and care for those around him. He demonstrates grace and empathy in every situation, be it within the entertainment industry or in our personal lives. His steady support and understanding presence make him a reliable source of guidance and comfort for all of us.

Danny Masterson’s warmth, humor, and positive outlook on life have been a driving force in shaping my character and the way I approach life’s challenges. His unwavering commitment to being an exceptional older brother figure to me has had a transformative impact on my life, instilling in me a sense of self-belief and encouraging me to aim for greatness, but all while maintaining a sense of humility.

In conclusion, I wholeheartedly vouch for Danny Masterson’s exceptional character and the tremendous positive influence he has had on me and the people around him. His dedication to leading a drug-free life and the genuine care he extends to others make him an outstanding role model and friend.

Please feel free to reach out if you require any further information or clarification.

Sincerely,

Mila Kunis

Rambi,

Thanks for posting. Mila Kunis has some pretty interesting interviews from the mid 00s about her experience working on the 70s show. In the one I saw she talked about how Danny encouraged then 20 year old Kutchner to French kiss then 14 year old Kunis, which he did. Kutchner was also there and said the same thing, emphasising how it was definitely Danny’s idea to take the heat off of himself. She also has interviews discussing similar and possibly worse things. I wonder why she didn’t include that in her letter…

Edit: found it youtu.be/ilHC3NhFW6Q?si=Ha3glLPAqhpYqoAG he says he was 19 but in his letter he says he was 20 when he met Danny.

jballs,

I thought this one was the most interesting as it addresses his crimes head on.

Jo Rup’s (who played the mom/Kitty Foreman) letter#

Dear Judge Olmedo,

My name is Debra, I am 72 years old, and I live in the mountains In Western Massachusetts. I am writing this letter on behalf of Danny Masterson.

I have known Danny and his family since 1998 when I began working with him on “That 70’s Show”. I am aware that Danny is convicted of 2 counts of forceable rape and, though it is so hard for me to wrap my head around this, I respect the law and the court. I always have.

But I would like to tell you about the young man I know. Danny was the leader of the “kids” on our show. He had the most acting experience and was a little bit older. He was well liked and very respected. One of the first things Danny did with them was to sit them all down (he had a little meeting) and had them al make a pact that no one would do drugs because of the nature of our show. The spotlight would be on them and he wanted everyone to succeed. I remember thinking that it was such a smart thing to do and something I never would have thought of. As a result, you never saw them in the tabloids. Danny made sure of that and I was so appreciative. They all kept their word.

Danny was always respectful and kind. On show days when the camera crew would come in, Danny was the one that shook each camera man’s hand before we started. He knew everyone’s name, where they lived and about their families. I did not. He was loved. Over the years Danny is one of the few that came to support me by seeing my shows in the theater. He brought his family sometimes. And it was a joy. And so appreciated. One night we went to dinner, he had dragged another cast member, his father and some friends to see me, and it was dark and late after theater. I had to get home in New York City so Danny called an Uber, paid for it and escorted me out. There are so many instances of things like this. He was just like that. Respectful and kind.

Wilmer Valderama asked the cast of 70’s Show to go to his high school graduation. Danny and I were the only ones to go. I remember looking at him and dying. It was outside, in the valley, really hot, and he was a “V” alphabetically. We laughed so hard during that. It’s a really nice memory. Danny just always showed up to support.

I knew Danny’s family through work. I had worked with his brother Chris on another show and always saw his family hanging out in his dressing room. Danny’s dressing room was above mine and Danny loved music. Many times I found myself going upstairs to ask him to turn it down and was always greeted with an apology, a grin and an instant fix. It’s these little things that come to mind when I think of Danny. I later did his show ''The Ranch", he called me at home in Massachusetts. I hadn’t done tv in awhile, and he offered it to me. I was so grateful and touched. I loved hearing him play with his daughter in the hallways - it was an awesome giggle.

So thank you for allowing me to-tell you about the Danny Masterson that I love I just read this letter back. It’s so hard for me to express o paper but I understand that he is facing a lengthy sentence and I really wanted to tell you about these moments. He would take the time to do it for me.

Sincerely,

Debra Jo Rupp

SpookyUnderwear,

These letters are wild. Why? Why get involved? He’s been convicted. Just stay out of it. Now you simply look like you’re defending a convicted rapist. I don’t care if it was my best friend. I’m not going to write a letter for a rapist asking for the judge to go easy on him because he was always nice to me.

drewdarko,

Because the justice system isn’t perfect and it’s possible for innocent people to get convicted.

PizzasDontWearCapes, (edited )

Is it reasonable to surmise that’s what happened here

This reeks of Scientology from front to back

drewdarko,

How do you reasonably surmise if someone is being falsely charged? I don’t know what role Scientology plays in this. What brings them up?

PizzasDontWearCapes, (edited )

If you’re interested, there is a lot more background on this case

One troubling aspect is that the victims were coerced by the Scientologists to not charge Masterson, and instead, handle this within their cult realm

frogfruit,

Probably pressured by the church of scientology

pulaskiwasright,

Are they all Scientologists?

frogfruit,

Yes. Supposedly it was Danny Masterson that recruited them. Some of them claim to no longer be involved with the church, but celebrities have been known to lie about that before, likely a church PR move to convince people they’re totally not a cult and that people can leave any time.

nepenthes,
@nepenthes@lemmy.world avatar

Don’t do drugs! Join a cult instead!
Fucking Y I K E S

30mag,

I didn’t know that. These people are dead to me.

jballs,

Smith’s (who played the dad/Red Foreman) letter#

Dear Judge Olmedo:

My name is Kurtwood Smith. I have been a professional actor for 57 years, the last 43 years working primarily in film and television. It is as an actor that I came to know Danny Masterson.

I should mention that I am aware that Danny has been convicted of two counts of forcible rape and is awaiting sentencing.

I have known Danny since the spring of 1998, when we began filming the television show That 70s Show. We worked on the show for eight years and I consider Danny to be a good friend. Our friendship revolved around work. Primarily because of our age difference we didn’t socialize much outside of work but I saw hi every day on the job whether we had scenes together or not.

I believe Danny to be a wonderful actor. When working together I always found him to be prepared, inventive, and responsive to suggestions from the director, myself, and other actors. Danny was also very enjoyable to be around. He has a quick wit and a good sense of humor. I always looked forward to working on scenes with Danny. I should mention that he was extremely popular with the crew. He was usually the first actor to learn every crew member’s name, what their job was, and how it related to his job. Danny was the leader among his contemporaries in the cast. He was a tad older and much more experienced and he took that position seriously.

During the eight years we did the show. we never had the problems some other shows had with their younger cast members. After the show ended in 2006 I didn’t see much of Danny, except for occasional events, until almost 10 years later, when I began playing a recurring character on The Ranch. Danny was one of the stars of the show. I was happy to be working with him again. It was also great to see his family. If you know Danny, you know his family.

I have known his parents and younger brothers and sister since we started work on That 70s Show. They are a very close knit family; they seem to care very much for each other and work to help one another succeed.

Danny was now married and the father of a beautiful little girl. It was a treat to spend some time with him at work and to be around him and his family. I had met his wife while we were still shooting That 70s Show, although they were not married at the time.

I found that Danny treated all women on the show with respect, not only the women in the cast, but women on the crew as well. It was my observation that he treated the woman he married in a respectful and loving way. Later, when we were working on The Ranch. I was aware that, not only were they a happy couple, but he was a wonderful father to his daughter.

I had the opportunity to watch Danny with his daughter. At the time she was maybe two or three years old. It was so clear how much he loved her and how delighted he was with her. He was so patient and easygoing with her. At one point, when she became fussy, he joked with her and made faces and she calmed down and was laughing. She clearly loved her daddy.

I consider Danny a talented, hardworking, giving actor. I have viewed him being respectful and considerate to those he has worked with. He has been a leader and positive force among his peers. He has seemed loving and caring, not only towards his wife and daughter, but his family at large.

For all the reasons I have mentioned I consider myself fortunate to have had Danny Masterson in my life.

Sincerely yours,

Kurtwood Smith

idiomaddict,

That’s a weird fucking letter. It doesn’t go far enough to fully endorse his character because of the repeated distance, but it’s too positive to be damning with faint praise. It reads like he wanted to help without going out on a limb

Duranie,

I think that was a smartly written letter from the standpoint that he told the truth of his observations from his perspective, but made no attempt to sway opinion of Danny’s character. Under the circumstances if you really feel compelled to submit a letter, it’s the honest way of doing it.

Squizzy,

He said nothing of note, the only reason to do this is to have done it which to me shows support for him.

He can calm his child and not be outwardly hostile to women in his life. I think he’s a nice guy. It’s a weaker stance than Ashton’s but it’s cut from the same cloth.

idiomaddict,

But that’s the thing: he’s not making an effective argument for the judge, and he’s not taking a moral stand not to side with rapists. It’s too wishy washy to have an impact.

I agree that he felt compelled to write it, stuck exclusively to what he knew well, and tried to be honest, I just don’t get why.

FlyingSquid,
@FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

Just because I respected him much more as an actor as Ashton Kutcher- he was in my all-time favorite short film- this one hurts more.

meco03211,

I don’t ever recall him lying to me.

That’s fair. I can’t remember the last time I asked of my friends, or they asked of me, “Forcibly raped anyone recently?” I’m quite certain anyone who would forcibly rape another person would answer that honestly. Really this is all Ashton’s fault. Had he just asked that question, we could have got this mess taken care of long ago.

aceshigh,
@aceshigh@lemmy.world avatar

I don’t ever recall him lying to me.

i take that to mean that danny told ashton what happened, and ashton knew and is still supporting danny.

BurtReynoldsMustache,

He knew the truth. Even if he never outright asked, he knew in his gut that something was off with that scumbag. It wouldn’t surprise me if he was also someone of questionable morals. You are the people you surround yourself with, i fully believe that.

aceshigh,
@aceshigh@lemmy.world avatar

As a friend, Danny has been nothing but a positive influence on me.

He’s an extraordinarily honest and intentional human being.

Over 25 year relationship I don’t ever recall him lying to me.

Not only is he a good friend to me I’ve witnessed him be a good friend to others and the kind of brother others would be lucky to have.

As a role model, Danny has consistently been an excellent one.

… danny’s an amazing man who walks on water… the serial rapist thing isn’t the real him…

30mag,

It’s a personal pet peeve of mine when articles reference documents with no link. I prefer to read stuff for myself and come to my own conclusions.

I feel the same. There is a lot of room for spin when people report their interpretation of a document, what they think about it, and how it makes them feel.

stopthatgirl7,
@stopthatgirl7@kbin.social avatar

He and Kunis are learning the hard lesson of “shutting up is free.”

assassin_aragorn,

It was stupid of them to say anything. They aren’t in the court room. Their letters aren’t going to affect the decision nor sentencing.

ZeroCool, (edited )
@ZeroCool@feddit.ch avatar

Their letters aren’t going to affect the decision nor sentencing.

Lmao… What exactly do you think the point of pre-sentencing character references in criminal proceedings is? Please be specific.

Ozymati,
@Ozymati@lemmy.nz avatar

It occurs to me that Kutcher and co might not have had access to the court proceedings, testimony, and evidence, but might have had a lot of access to Masterton’s side of the story.

It also occurs to me that being friends with people is complicated and that bad people emotionally loan shark a lot - maybe they felt obligated to send letters of support because they were being guilt tripped about all he’d done for them or because they think being a good friend is supporting no matter what (aka being an enabler).

All that said, Kutcher’s a grown up adult who should have been able to predict that supporting a sex abuser is going to conflict with being involved in an anti-sex abuse organization.

Doorbook, (edited )

It is a pattern, he had done the same thing before.

From Wikipedia:

“In November 2011, Kutcher received heavy criticism for his tweet in response to the Jerry Sandusky child sexual abuse scandal, calling the firing of Penn State football coach Joe Paterno “in poor taste”. Kutcher subsequently turned over management of his Twitter account to his team at the Katalyst Media company.”

Edit:

The more I read his past I find more disturbing statement that shows red flags.

“Bixler and others have cited additional ways in which Kutcher showed questionable behavior in the past, specifically pointing to a 2003 video of the actor speaking on his MTV show “Punk’d” about actress Hilary Duff. In the video, Kutcher says Duff, who was a minor at the time, is “one of the girls that we’re all waiting for to turn 18. Along with the Olsen twins.””

pulaskiwasright,

Back then, that was a pretty damn normal thing for people to say. It’s really awful that that it was so normal, but hopefully most people regret saying things like that now.

Smoogs,

It was not normal for a lot of people. But those people were silenced. I’m kinda tired that people are using era as an excuse. What it was is a strong, few influencers allowed assholes to fly their asshole flag out in the open. They encouraged it. It was called edgy. It was called bold. It was called confidence. It was called a lot of things that were all considered positive attributes. Even funny. And a lot of that is how the media back then promoted ideas.

Meanwhile the people who weren’t assholes were called ‘pussies’ by the assholes. In todays world, the ‘pussies’ of yesterday are what we consider normal people today. The people who were stomped on, shut up and quiet. Now that they are allowed to freely fly their ‘we don’t have to shit on others’ flag,

we’re assuming way many people changed. When it’s really just a tip of the balance on who’s collective ideas are more fit for the current time.

We still have the assholes of yesteryear snowflaking they are the victims of the media and complaining about ‘PC’ and cancel culture, balking at the mere idea of consequence for words and actions. These people didn’t collectively change with the times. They’d crawl back to the yesteryear in a second to be celebrated as an asshole if they could.

Sure, Some people may have grown and changed from being the asshole. I have a small handful of relatives that cringe at who they once were, who’s ideas they once followed and they’ve grown as people. But I have enough relatives who also complain about the change and mill on about the good ol days where they could silence everyone who they didn’t agree with/escape culpability.

don’t be fooled for a second that there isn’t still a lot of people who are assholes. We’re just celebrating a different set of rules now to ethically follow now since the metoo movement made its debut and the once quiet people are safer to speak up. Those quiet people aren’t silenced anymore. They just get called PC instead of pussy by the assholes now. That’s as far as the assholes have evolved in today’s world.

pulaskiwasright,

You must be some kind of mind reader because otherwise your post would just be a bunch of smug assumptions. It’s important to allow people to grow. If you only ever judge people by where they were at their worst, then no one will want to change and the only people you’ll judge to be good are the people you didn’t know about when they were at their worst.

Smoogs,

Sure, Some people may have grown and changed from being the asshole. I have a small handful of relatives that cringe at who they once were, who’s ideas they once followed and they’ve grown as people.

SCB,

It was absolutely normal lol. It was also clearly a joke.

That’s why you won’t find a single contemporary piece freaking out about an episode of Punk’d.

I know you weren’t born yet at the time, but some of us were adults then.

Smoogs,

I’m probably older than you. You clearly make a lot of assumptions to make yourself feel right. Nice, pompous, bad faith way to engage people.

SCB,

There is no way you’d not have memory of this time period as a Gen X or older person. Times are indeed changing. Society is indeed improving.

aceshigh,
@aceshigh@lemmy.world avatar

danny was already convicted of the rapes when kutcher wrote the letter, saying that danny was an outstanding citizen.

themajesticdodo,

This is typical garbage. You’re literally imitating the townspeople from the “change the racist flag” episode of South Park.

Soulg,

Nuance is dead, unfortunately.

Polar,

The 8 people that downvoted you are the type of people that love cancel culture.

Ashton was shitty defending his friend. Ashton does not deserve the backlash he is receiving for the exact reasons you describe.

Then again, Lemmy was up in arms over the LTT situation, and all of my comments saying “hey, lets wait to hear both sides” were HEAVILY downvoted.

BurtReynoldsMustache,

Fake internet points don’t matter anyways

Polar,

Didn’t say they do. Stop trying to undermine my comment by replying about something unrelated.

StormNinjaPenguin,

I’m somewhat familiar with the case as I follow an ex-scientologist dude on yt (youtube.com/@GrowingUpInScientology) who was present in the court and reported on all nuances. According to him, Kutcher knew about Masterson’s drugging raping habit, also personally knew one of the women named in the case that prosecuted him (she was also present when Kutcher, upon finding her murdered girlfriend, instead calling 911, called his agent and Masterson).

Said letter’s general purpose to the judge is to ask for a lighter sentence in light of the jury decision, and they try to make him look like the nicest person ever walked on earth, always respecting woman and against all drugs that quasi questions the sentence as is. They deserve the backlash.

reverendsteveii,

Turns out that being against rape in 99.9% of cases isn’t good enough.

hypelightfly,

Correct.

FoundTheVegan,
@FoundTheVegan@kbin.social avatar

The fact that Ashton was not aware about the numerous sexual assaults coming from the church of scientology is really damming. Sure, he can be biased about long term friend/coworker, it's messed up to write charcter letters after the victim testimony when the went in to the details of what Masterson did, but to turn a blind eye to scientology? And you care about victims? About. trafficking? About SA? Fuck off.

Clearly they were never serious about Thorn and was likely only a PR move. At least Debra Jo Rupp and Kurtwood Smith haven't spent the last couple years telling people to believe victims. Still gross, but Ashton put him self on this pedestal. Kunis to a lesser extent, since she wasnt a founder. But I am just so disappointed at all of these people.

Son_of_dad,

I do believe in innocent until proven guilty, but Ashton publicly crucified and called every person arrested by thorn a trafficker and rapist, before they had their day in court. Yet when it’s his friend, even after three verdict, he’s still defending him. It just makes all his work with thorn look self serving, and makes me wonder if he’s doing it to throw people off the scent, considering he bedded a 14 year old.

Dark_Arc,
@Dark_Arc@social.packetloss.gg avatar

makes me wonder if he’s doing it to throw people off the scent, considering he bedded a 14 year old

Wait what??

Son_of_dad,

When he and his wife met, she was 14. He claims that he did absolutely nothing with her until she turned 18, but considering the stuff that’s come out about them in those days recently, I don’t believe him

Dark_Arc,
@Dark_Arc@social.packetloss.gg avatar

Ashton’s first wife was 15 years older than him? And when he married Mila she would’ve been 32.

I guess they did meet on set when Mila was 14 but like she didn’t start dating him until she was in her late twenties and it looks like she was dating Macaulay Culkin before then.

I have no dog in this fight really… I don’t have any particular feelings for Ashton; but that doesn’t really hit me as the moves of a predator. By her late twenties Mila surely was old enough to make her own choices, no? And she was clearly with someone else for a long time, no?

Pratai,

People need to lighten the fuck up.

hitmyspot,

People also need to not support rapists. I mean, give him.support as a friend while clearly letting him know he was wrong. But, to try to ask for leniency minimizes the rapist actions, ignoring the victims.

Pratai,

Well, now because of everyone’s outrage- a good and charitable man has stepped down.

Hope everyone is happy.

fear,
@fear@kbin.social avatar

a good and charitable man

Was he though? I don't know anything about him, nor do I have strong feelings about his letter because I know there's a chance he was threatened by the most dangerous and litigious cult on the planet to write it.

I'm sure if he's truly good and charitable as you say, that he will be free to continue those habits without bringing unnecessary controversy to an anti-sex abuse organization of all things. His letter directly opposes what such an organization stands for.

Pratai,

Maybe look him up before you cast judgement first. He has helps thousands upon thousands of women and children through his charity.

Redditiscancer789,

I think it’s quite clear if this passes the BS test or not by simply asking what do you think his organization that he’s the front man in the eye had been approached by the 2 women(possibly more) Masterson raped to help them? Do you think he would of helped them prosecute Masterson based on his letter?

fear,
@fear@kbin.social avatar

I specifically stated that I'm not casting judgement on him.

hypelightfly,

No good and charitable man has stepped down.

hitmyspot,

A charitable man. Good man is in question. People are complex. Nobody is all good or all bad. That’s children’s stories. He likely say the good in his friend. But his friend did evil things that hurt multiple people.

drewdarko,

I don’t know much about the case. What was the proof used to convict Danny Masterson?

hitmyspot,

Enough to convince a jury of his peers. Good enough for me.

superduperenigma,

People need to “lighten the fuck up” about rape?!

Pratai,

Misinterpret much?

CAVOK,

I wonder how Masterson feels now when he looks at his young daughter and knows that there are people like him in the world.

What he did to those girls, someone could do to his. I hope he spends all his time in jail thinking about that.

I also hope that nothing bad ever happens to her, just for clarity.

FluorideMind,

Really terrible. Ashton has done so much to help children. And because his friend did bad the Internet bullies him away from doing more good. Maybe we should spread positivity instead of hate.

justhach,
@justhach@lemmy.world avatar

Its more that he supported his rapist friend to try and get his sentence reduced through a character statement. He could have, you know, not supported a rapist just because they had good times making a show together 15 years ago.

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