Aggravationstation,

One more reason I would hate to live in America. In Britain we don’t give tips.

blackn1ght,

There’s a street food hall place in Manchester where you can only order via an app and some food businessess force you to pay a “tip” while ordering your food. Can pay 5, 10 or 15%.

Who the fuck do they think is going to willingly pay more than they have to? It’s blatantly a service charge, you don’t give tips before you’ve even ordered your food.

JokeDeity,

laughs in American

Raxiel,

What? No, we might not tip our petrol station attendants or barmaids, but it’s still been normal to tip table service for at least 30 years.

Honytawk,

No, no it isn’t.

Tipping still happens rarely, and only as a bonus for excellent service. Nobody expects you to tip. So in >80% of the time you don’t.

DillyDaily,

It’s more normal in fancy places, or where you genuinely want to thank a server for above and beyond service. But it’s not expected, you’re not rude for not doing it, and you don’t do it for just any old outting.

I’ll tip a bartender who mixes me a drink with 3+ ingredients that’s not on their drink list, I’ll tip the server who painstakingly reviews the menu with our table to make sure we don’t have issues with allergies, I’ll tip the barista who rushes over with a cloth to help me after I accidentally knocked over my whole coffee who tried to make me a second coffee on the house. Because that’s excellent service and tipping is just an excellent way of saying thank you.

But those are exceptions to the rule.

Aggravationstation,

Yea, I meant we don’t tip in Britain as a matter of course but sure if I’ve received excellent service I might. I am a bit of a tight-arse though, not going to lie, so it’s rare.

EnderMB,

Not sure why you’re being downvoted. While we typically don’t tip, you can go to most food places with table service and gratuity is either automatically added, or is an option when you pay.

Raxiel,

It’s definitely appearing as an option more on the pos terminals now that most people prefer to pay contactless rather than cash. I’ve only had one occasion where the gratuity was automatically added (ironically, on an occasion I would not tip because the service negatively impacted my meal and I had to strike it out) perhaps I’ve just been lucky.

Apollo,

You don’t give tips you mean, plenty of people I know do.

xX_fnord_Xx,

It is a sad fact that raging against the tipping system by not tipping is only making the lives of tipped workers more miserable under the current system.

You aren’t proving a point or changing anything when you stiff your bartender/server, you are only guaranteed lesser service should you choose to return to the place.

The system sucks, but not tipping isn’t solving anything. Voting and political action are needed to change the current state of affairs.

Or, vote with your wallet, buy a bottle of liquor, and drink at home.

Double_A,
@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de avatar

If enough people do it, workers would ideally not accept the low salary anymore and demand more to take the job.

KoalaUnknown,

What annoys me isn’t that they ask for a tip, it’s how much they ask. I’m willing to round up to the nearest dollar if the service was good, but those little iPads always seem to ask for at least 15%. I am not giving a 15% tip to someone who only pressed buttons on a tablet.

pimeys,
@pimeys@lemmy.nauk.io avatar

This was so weird in the US. Everywhere you get asked for a tip. I got a tip screen even in a supermarket once. For the cashier. I got back home to the EU today and was happy to not tip anymore everywhere…

UnverifiedAPK,

It’s the Square checkouts and the other new POS like them. I’m pretty sure Square takes a chunk of the tip which is why they’re enabled by default (and I’m not sure you can disable them).

CADmonkey,

What’s even more fun are the places that ask for a tip… and the tip doesn’t go to the employees.

Lesrid,

I assume any “fast casual” tip goes directly to the boss. If you didn’t come to my table and take my order then the little iPad is paying the guy that wasn’t here all day.

greater_potater,

Reminder for everyone that when there are efforts to change the system and have employers pay higher wages instead, the majority of workers are vehemently against it.

You’ll see people in this thread telling you that it’s not the workers’ fault, and that taking it out on the workers by not tipping is not fair, as if they’re victims of the system.

Most pressure to maintain the system (or add tips to new industries) comes from the workers, and I feel that not tipping is entirely appropriate if you want it to change.

When the workers themselves start clamoring for raising wages and getting rid of tipping culture, I will empathize with them more.

LufyCZ,

Maybe they are pushing for higher tips because they aren’t paid enough?

Shush,

Exactly; they know they get more in tips than they would with minimum wage. It is very low right now.

LufyCZ,

Yeah so what I’m saying is if they got paid enough, same or more than what they’re getting with tips, we wouldn’t need to tip.

RememberTheApollo_,

People don’t want to constantly pay more fees in the form of “voluntary” tips that are supposed to be a courtesy based on service quality, not a tax and payroll dodge for employees and employers who obviously have no incentive to report cash income like this. And now even more people are jumping on the tip bandwagon, and on top of that they calculate the tip on the total including tax. I’m not giving the government a tip, too. Tips are becoming compulsory in the eyes of far too many service industry employees.

It’s far easier for them to shit on customers than it is to assume any risks associated with fighting employers and the established system for real wages. Leeching off the hard work wages of customers rather than doing the hard work of fighting for a real wage.

Fiivemacs,

Checkout this clear bullshit.

They charge more after you order to give you the impression your paying less because the menu looks cheap…

ctvnews.ca/…/restaurant-chain-charges-honest-to-g…

RememberTheApollo_,

What the bullshit is that? We’re charging you more so you pay less?

DJDarren,

That’s amazing.

“Look how cheap our prices are!*

*before we inflate them with an involuntary fee”

DJDarren,

Over here in the UK we don’t tip as a rule, unless we’ve been directly served by someone, and even then it’s mostly just to leave whatever change there may be.

But it’s become very fucking common for chain shops to ask if we want to round up to the nearest £ and donate that money to whichever charity they’re working with.

And my answer is always, always, no.

MashedTech,

Why not if it is a charity? I’m guessing you’re not trusting them?

DJDarren,

Because it just doesn’t feel right to me. And I know that it’s kinda churlish, but there’s a part of me that doesn’t want huge supermarket chains who keep posting record profits while paying the bare minimum they legally have to, to take the credit for me donating a few quid a month in rounding up my bill. Many of the charities wouldn’t be needed as much if these companies actually paid adequate wages.

yetanaika,
@yetanaika@feddit.cl avatar

I might be wrong but don’t they use these charities to get tax reductions?

Angry_Maple,
@Angry_Maple@sh.itjust.works avatar

I don’t think they do, but I’ve seen them announce things like " company name teamed up with x charity and we managed $200,000 !"

Conveniently forgetting to mention that they donated little to nothing themselves.

WoahWoah,

Do what you want, but that’s not how that works. Businesses aren’t “using” or “taking” your donation or claiming them as their own. They’re basically just serving as a collection point for whatever charity indicated. If you choose not to claim it yourself, that’s your choice, but the donation is “from” you “to” the charity. The supermarket or whatever just provides visibility for the charity and the collections logistics. It saves those charities having to find people to stand outside and ring a bell and hope you have change in your pocket.

If you’re not contributing to a charity in lieu of not participating in these “round up donations” programs, then you’re simply choosing to not donate to charity. Which is fine, as far as that goes.

DJDarren,

Oh aye, I know they’re not claiming tax or anything like that, and I get that it’s essentially just a digital version of having a change pot on the counter, but it still feels like Tesco getting to crow about how much their customers have helped raise, while they’re paying as little as they can legally get away with, y’know?

But ultimately it’s not really rational response, and I know that.

WoahWoah,

I get you. I basically swing back and forth between how you feel, “hell with this corporate public image campaign” and going “well, what the hell, it’s .12 for a good cause.”

That way I’m being irrational in all directions.

countflacula,

Charity donations are tax deductible (usually) so what you’re doing is giving the business a means to bring down their contributions for the year. It’d really be best if you just donated directly.

WoahWoah,

No. That’s not how that works.

SMT42,

Deductible means they don’t pay taxes on the money they donated
It does nothing to reduce the tax burden on their profits, if the money they’re donating wouldn’t have been profit in the first place

CantaloupeAss,

if u are in :amerikkka: and u have the means please tip people whenever and wherever you can, if leaving a tip is an option it is likely because the person you’re interacting with is being crushed under pitiful wages and astronomical expenses

Malfeasant,

We all are, hiding it doesn’t help.

jadegear,

Why is there never a button for just the tip?

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