emptyother,
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I definitly dont think I am smart. Other people can get new friends, find love-life , can afford proper apartments, knows how to plan social events, are wellrounded enough in knowledge that they can do trivia quizzes, and can do small-talk about real life stuff, or remember each others names, faces, and what they talked about last time they met. I got so little clue about any of that. Feel seriously dumb sometimes.

I can google very well. I’m a self-learned developer without university education. I can do okay on pop film-music trivia quiz. Can read out a good fiction novel in a single night. So I am above average smart in some VERY narrow fields.

But at least I dont think I know stuff I dont. I know my limits. I defer to people who have more experience than me. So I trust doctors and teachers about vaccinations, I trust that scientists are right about the coming climate changes, and I dont trust in people who have been caught lying before, no matter how much money or power they got. Im not THAT dumb. Sometimes it feels like just that alone puts me above average. But that cant be right, right?

MonsieurArchi,

People say I’m really smart but I think I’m just average tbh. I think I just know how to learn things and I try to keep an open mind to everything.

kool_newt,

I feel like there are too many types of intelligence for words like “smart” to have much meaning. I must be pretty smart is some areas being that people are willing to pay me plenty for what I know how to do, but I’ve been around people that make me feel dumb, and I know my brain sucks at certain things. Like that toy where you put the shape into the correct shape whole? that is not so easy for me and I make mistakes.

Liz_thestrange,

The only think if Knowles is that if i’m smart im a failure, if im average im a falure and if im dumb im almost decent but still a failure, i dunno on this point of my life i see myself nothing as a failure and i just want to kms at this point

pinkdrunkenelephants,

I had to sit down and accept I am more intelligent than the majority of people by virtue of the fact that I read and paid attention in school, and I had to after watching the political situation in the U.S. deteriorate.

It deteriorated because people refused to learn to read and write correctly, leaving them unable to examine primary sources or fully comprehend what they read in the news, online, everywhere.

It deteriorated because people refused to learn math and science, meaning they can no longer verify factual claims charlatans make to them, or figure out when their bosses are ripping them off, or budget, or make their own stuff.

It deteriorated because people outright rejected the notion of critical thinking and logical debate on principle, preferring instead to force people to submit to their paper-thin view of the world and to accept certain assumptions that lead people to accept authoritarianism in turn.

And it’s sad to see. It’s sad to watch people so hopelessly fucking stupid and dependent on the system that they’ll fight to protect it, and it’s even sadder watching them flip the fuck out when you tell them their economic woes are partially their own fault because they refuse to be educated or to use their education.

It’s a sad thing to have to accept but it’s the truth.

acwern,

About average. I have a master’s in maths, and am pretty competent at tech stuff. Also do a lot of music. Those are just interests though, really. It’s easy to get caught up on the idea that being good at the skills society deems as “valuable” or “smart” means you’re in some way objectively smarter than other people. I’ve just found that isn’t remotely the case though. People have different interests, I’ve heard “dumb” people passionately talk about things they love, going into complex inner-workings that I would have to also spend hundreds of hours trying to wrap my head around. Also, a lot of the “smartest” people I know are utterly clueless at anything social. Sure they may end up as maths researchers but they can’t pick up on nuances of social interaction.

Some people would argue that the metric for smartness is a little more set in stone, usually the same people who think that IQ is anything more than an ego-trip to justify MENSA charging people money for a shitty magazine and “proof” that they’re smart. It’s never felt that simple to me though, there are so mant facets of life to be understood and everyone has different understandings of them

thelsim,
@thelsim@sh.itjust.works avatar

I really don’t think I’m able to judge myself on that scale. All I know is I’ve made some really smart and some REALLY stupid decisions in my life. So… ehh… it evens out?

Rullejorge,

High Intelligence, could most likely become a Mensa member. Incredible emotionally crippled by being bullied, early verbal/speech issues, been in a lots of fights, had motivation issues through university. Doing quite fine now career-wise after changing to IT and saw immediate appreciation for my faculties, but still a emotional mess, though I have a tolerant girlfriend.

Asafum,

I’m incredibly stupid. Stupendously stupid. I’ve managed to take all the advantages a white dude from a lower middle class could have and squander them. I’m stuck as a worthless blue collar p.o.s in an open air sweatshop factory on the far end of an expensive island.

If I were smart I’d be making 100k+ working from home with literally all my friends from highschool that went on to study computer science.

pizzahoe,

I could be smart or I could just be surrounded by a lot of dumb people leading me to think I’m smart 🤔

MrBakedBeansOnToast,

I‘m stuck in a dunning-Kruger-loop. I think I’m kinda smart so that must meant I’m actually kinda dumb but then if I think I’m dumb that must mean I’m actually smart but if I think im smart it must mean I’m really kinda dumb…

Astroturfed,

Both. Years of evidence. I’m probably autistic, extremely impulsive and have substance abuse issues. So, no matter how intelligent I can be I make a lot of bad decisions. Also, being hungover or high really lowers your ability to be smart and make good decisions.

mojo,

I feel like I’m smart, but then I compare myself to other people and see they’re more successful in areas I struggle. I feel like my brain short circuits under stress. I’m my own worst enemy in that regard.

Ironfist,

I watched too many people bitch and moan about vaccines and masks during a pandemic… I dont think I’m smart, the bar is just too low.

PostMalort,

Same boat. I think I’m average, but the bar seems so low that I’d up that to above average.

Sequentialsilence,

I am very smart in a single field of study and very dumb in normal life. Yay neurodivergence…

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