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Whiskeyomega, to PCGaming in Madison on why she quit Linus Tech Tips. (Content Warning: Sexism, Self Harm , Sexual Assault & Harassment)
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Update : LTT Responded https://www.theverge.com/2023/8/16/23834190/linus-tech-tips-gamersnexus-madison-reeves-controversy
"The company has currently paused all production to improve its review processes, and CEO Terren Tong tells The Verge an outside investigator will be hired to examine the harassment allegations."

QHC,
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Time will be the real proof, but it's already refreshing to see someone besides Linus being referenced as taking corrective action. This is what Terren was hired to do. I wonder if Linus is actually prepared for the decisions he may make in the coming months.

altima_neo, to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG
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Who?

xusontha,

Madison was a person chosen for ROG reboot (Asus sponsored LMG to make PCs with people after they made a video explaining why they should get one) and her video was really popular (5th most viewed on LTT channel with 12mil views) and people enjoyed her personality/dynamic. Later, there was a job offering posted for social media manager/coordinator and she ended up getting the job, after that you can read what she says happened (not saying it did, not saying it didn’t, just saying what we do know). She also posted about some of this stuff before I’m pretty sure, but I don’t remember exactly what she said (it was in the same vein as this, but I’m pretty sure this is more in detail though).

TheAnonymouseJoker, to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG
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Always record your conversations. And use phones with two party call recording and/or screenshot everything. It is how I have exposed multiple scumbags over the years, and continue to.

If you live in one of those “one party consent” places, buy a phone with which you can call record both ends, because if the abuser does not care about law, why should you? The state will not help you until you present evidence.

I am beginning to feel that LMG, MrBeast, Pewdiepie, all these “big” creators are big pieces of shit that just sanitise everything before presenting us the mister nice videos on YouTube. And just about everyone with a large social presence is like that. I remember the death of that kid years ago, due to Linus, and how that reddit post sometimes surfaces up.

magnor,
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Was there evidence linking the suicide to them apart from the Reddit post ? I never did have the stomach to research it in details.

TheAnonymouseJoker,
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Its about as much for the kid, in the form of his father’s testimony, as Madison says for herself. We do have to trust these testimonies by trying to decipher facts, and using a combination of facts, good conjectures and sniffing the moral intent of the claimant and the accused in the situation on a case-by-case basis.

LMG fans back then squashed the testimony about the kid in the same way they are trying to hate on Madison and are trying to call GamersNexus irrelevant drama poster. I myself have been called “drama poster” dozens of times for being the sole person to document and bring up issues and bad actors in privacy community for years, and can always sniff out what is behind the flesh of a person.

magnor,
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I’d argue the two things are different in the fact that in this case Madison is talking about direct actions by LMG employees, not the channel’s fanbase.

sugar_in_your_tea,

GamersNexus irrelevant drama poster

Yeah, I really don’t get that viewpoint. Look at GN’s track history, they call out a company and then leave it at that. That’s it. Sometimes they include clips as a meme (e.g. the Gigabyte “exploding” PSUs), but they don’t make multiple videos covering the same topic. If a company improves, they will make a video recapping the issue, the company’s response, and an updated analysis of if they think that was an appropriate move or not.

So I really don’t see GN as a drama channel, they tend to have well-researched content, give companies a chance to explain themselves, etc. I don’t know if GN did that this time (it was a long video), but they did provide many examples of the types of issues they found.

TheAnonymouseJoker,
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GN is by far one of the highest journalistic integrity channels out there on the entirety of YouTube. When liars and trolls want to defend something, the first thing they attempt is to discredit the critic as whiny/drama/tattletale or similar words. Source: I have been in that position in privacy community for years, and despise these kind of fanboy cult trolls. They are by far one of the worst kinds of people on the internet, alongside harassers and criminals.

sugar_in_your_tea,

One step worse imo is the “we’re more successful than you,” as if that’s a real argument, which Linus seems to also be pulling. And he’s not the only one, xQc did the same thing when he was challenged on his conception of Fair Use as it relates to “reaction” videos.

NathanUp,
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To be honest, I think ‘founders syndrome’ vibes have been radiating from their content for years. Owner-operators are often some of the most toxic employers.

zik,

I’ve noticed Linus be visibly mean to his employees on camera multiple times and I don’t even watch that much. I figure if that’s what he’s willing to do on camera it’s probably a lot worse off camera.

rich, (edited ) to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG

I have never felt the need to use YouTube for anything aside from classic comedy clips, music, gameplay clips and trailers. So, YouTube personalities like these pass me by. I’m one of those types who instantly closes a video if I hear commentary or talking over it. I don’t want to hear that shite.

Maybe it’s because I grew up without YouTube, unlike my daughter. She watches so much utter shit on there, unfortunately.

However, I have watched one LTT video before when doing some electronic engineering classes, and we were shown one to explain some thing I can’t remember. I do remember saying the guy seemed like a right prick, to the chagrin of others in my class. A smug, know-it all prick.

Well, guess who feels vindicated today! Me!

Frederic,

I’m like you, grown up without YT and I rarely watch it, for some video clip, or when I need to check how to disassemble my laptop or washing machine. I never watched a “YouTuber” or never ever went to twitch

rich,

I’ve never actually used twitch before. Ever.

I’m getting old…

But yeah, if I need a walkthrough on how to do something, I’ll always prefer written instructions/guides.

TheBat,
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You might enjoy Tom Scott’s videos. His style of videos is inspired by British television in 80s-90s.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=ceWZslOfEjs

www.youtube.com/watch?v=mUF4afxMpQk

www.youtube.com/watch?v=EN9JzxzDXU0

thisbenzingring, to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG

I believe her.

I have been in the tech industry for almost 30 years. These things she talks about are not new and will keep happening unless more people talk about them. I gave that Linus guy a listen once or twice, was never impressed. His fans are delusional, this thread contains a few of them!

sugar_in_your_tea,

Agreed. However, I still want to see facts, because it is possible that she’s exaggerating. Until I see facts, I’m going to believe Madison.

That said, I rarely watch LTT or any related channels. I find them to be shallow, often click-bait, and their merch advertising is incredibly annoying. I get my tech news and entertainment from other channels, such as Gamer’s Nexus, Level1Techs, Louis Rossmann, OptimumTech, Tech Ingredients, and SomeOrdinaryGamers.

I don’t understand the rabid following LMG has, but I do try to be objective in my criticism. I think GN’s coverage recently was pretty revealing (the one about testing quality), especially when paired with this article.

thisbenzingring,

What is she exaggerating? It’s her perspective. The things she described are not exaggerating.

sugar_in_your_tea,

I don’t know, that’s why I want to see more facts about the situation.

So that’s why I’m defaulting to believing the victim until I have evidence to the contrary. She has provided her side, I’m waiting for LMG to provide theirs.

inetknght, to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG

I never publicly made any statements regarding my time there because I feared even more backlash from a community that was already attacking, defaming, and sending me death threats.

Fuck man, pretty much nobody should have to deal with that.

I was actually called a tattle tale

Been there done that.

“snitches get stiches” is the phrase I’ve been told many times

I was told I was arguing, when I was trying to discuss my point of view.

This too

I remember getting told off for taking my sick days, as in the days you’re entitled to.

I am still, to this day, hesitant to take days off from this kind of shit

I was asked to twerk for a co-worker at one point.

I know some ladies who were asked by the CFO of a previous company to jump in place while to get a company t-shirt that other employees received.

I was told I was chunky, fat, ugly, stupid. I was called “removed” I was called a “removed

I was called “stupid” to my face in an open office with fifty other staff in the room.

I was also the one tasked with managing the Only Fans account.

Something I said I didn’t want to do.

I had to read comments from people talking about how they wanted to fuck me and my co workers.

I saw peoples dicks, and vagina’s.

I said no, and was told only a little longer.

You should never be obligated to do things you don’t want to do. No job is worth it.

Please don’t attack individuals who don’t actually have power at this company, most of them are blameless or powerless to actually change anything.

This absolutely. For every one person who speaks up there are usually multiple tens who do not.

Also “why didn’t you take legal actions”

Many of them don’t know better. Many of them feel like they’re trapped: they require the paycheck and so they feel obligated to endure abuses.

… Or, at least, that’s been my experience with employers. To be clear: I do not, and have not, worked for LMG. I’m not trying to make it about me, just trying to relate. It’s unfortunate easy to relate.

She’s got some tough issues and I wish her to have better employment opportunities in the future.

These days I work for a company where “everything is awesome” and I get to work on really cool things every day without too much drama. I wish everyone could do that. I certainly couldn’t have without deciding to leave an abusive employer. I encourage everyone to seek better employment if you feel like you can relate to any of the issues she’s brought up.

So here’s some tips. There’s a lot to unpack though.

  • keep a personal record. Keep it at home. If it’s on a computer or phone then keep it on a personal one so you still have it if you do quit or are fired. Write down the good times and the bad times.
    • if you’re hourly, make sure to include your clock-in and clock-out times
  • if you live in a single-party-recording-consent state, then record your conversations
  • if anything comes up, your personal records can be admissible in court
  • if nothing comes up then at least you can look back at your records and remember how often good things or bad things happen. it will help you to make decisions objectively and judge your emotions for them

Sending unsolicited sexually explicit messages (even just text) or images is a federal crime and can be included in sexual harassment claims. If your employer does not address the problem then your employer may be held accountable. It’s important that you keep records of your complaint to your employer and their inaction!

So, learn about harassment and discrimination laws. Everyone has a right to not be harassed (sexually or otherwise) or discriminated against. You can file a complaint with the Equal Employment Opportunity Office or your state’s equivalent (not all states have an equivalent).

www.eeoc.gov

magnor,
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This is an excellent and thoughtful response. Thank you for taking the time.

keefshape,

Agreed. Also thanks to you for noticing and hilighting the value of their response. An equally awesome move.

magnor,
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There is great content here on Lemmy. A welcome change from that other place if I might say. Cheers.

inetknght,

Thanks :)

I’m not party to the accusations. Things can be interpreted many ways. So I tried to keep an open mind and my response fairly applicable to anyone in general.

It’s clear that someone is being deceptive. I have no idea whether it’s some of the LMG team or Madison. I have to trust someone claiming to be a victim though.

These are serious, possibly criminal, accusations that Madison is making on a very public platform. Big accusations like this honestly belong to the courts and I hope that courts will figure out the truth – that’s what they’re there for. If it all just boils down to PR and settlements out of court then IMO that is a miscarriage of justice for every would-be third party victim of harassment.

It’s true that just about any online platform has to deal with sexually explicit content. But OnlyFans has a particular reputation about it. So if LMG has an OnlyFans account and she was managing, producing for, or interacting with it then I most certainly believe she’d have been exposed to sexually explicit material. If I were to investigate, I’d start truth-finding from there: find out what management’s policies are/were with regards to dealing with that content and find out what actual actions were taken for that content. Subpoena OnlyFans to produce copies of the content and correlate their own reports of whatever action LMG claims to have taken. From there, the rest of the accusations will fall into place with weight.

magnor,
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Whether or not the accusations are true or not, you gave excellent life advice imho.

Onlyfans might indeed have something to say here. Let us hope they do.

loulis,

Sending unsolicited sexually explicit messages (even just text) or images is a federal crime and can be included in sexual harassment claims.

Are US and Canada law similar in that aspect?

inetknght,

I’m a citizen of the USA and have only worked for US businesses. I don’t know about Canadian law (nor am I a lawyer in the US) but I would be surprised and saddened if they don’t have a strong legal system to protect victims.

cobra89,

Adding this link for Canadian workers: canada.ca/…/harassment-violence-complaint.html

sugar_in_your_tea,

Thanks for this! I’m a male manager of a team of mostly men and one woman, and we have a handful of other women on our broader team.

Fortunately, our company has never done any of this nonsense, and I hope nobody in our department (or company for that matter) would ever think of it. Our head of HR is female, as is our department’s HR rep, and we did a big push for DEI training over the last couple of years (the best company meeting imo was a Q&A with a panel of women, immigrants, and racial minorities). That has mostly run its course, but we still have mandatory, short, digital trainings every year, and a longer in-person one for new hires that repeats every few years for existing hires.

I’m going to bring up some of these points with the women on my team and ask them politely to let me know if they have anything they’d like to mention. It’s hard enough to attract women in my field (software development), so I want to keep whatever women we can find. But if my company is not a healthy working environment for anyone on my team, I would prefer they leave than continue somewhere they don’t feel comfortable, but I’d like the opportunity to try to fix the problem first.

So thanks again! I hope you’re in a better work environment now.

Metal_Zealot, to PCGaming in Madison on why she quit Linus Tech Tips. (Content Warning: Sexism, Self Harm , Sexual Assault & Harassment)
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Linus’ fan base drove a little boy to suicide, and the mother subsequently took her own life as well.

hruzgar, to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG

Basically a twitch streamer not being able to adapt to a working envoirenment. Streaming games all day long to working at least 8h a day is a big difference tbh

AdmiralShat,

Ah yes, being groped by a man and being called a retarded faggot is totally her inability to conform to working a desk job

You’re a brain dead twat

athos77,

Please don't use personal attacks.

SRo,

Personal attacks are the best one. Calling a cretin a cretin is great. You should try it sometime.

prole,

Yeah, these people just can’t adjust to the real world of (checks notes) being inappropriately touched by coworkers and being silenced and threatened when speaking up about it.

magnor,
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How dare they expect human decency? Goddamn GenZ are SO entitled.

hruzgar,

How do you know thats true? We only heared ONE PERSON for now. She could very well be lying or overexaggerating for sure.

hruzgar,

I cant think bad of a person who I watch since years and who has helped me get into this tech space without hearing his argument first. I don’t know why all you guys are hating on him for no reason 😣

OneWomanCreamTeam,

Working 8 hours a day gets a lot harder when everyone above you in the company is actively working against you.

Not to mention, if you read a little further down they mention multiple instances of sexual harassment with basically no response from HR. That is absolutely unforgivable.

snor10,

Of all the takes you could have taken from this you chose this steaming pile of shit.

After I came forward about being assaulted, Someone accused Linus of inappropriate conduct on twitter.

He came over to my corner and started BERATING HER. Calling her insane, mentally ill, an attention seeker, and just digging into this poor woman who had felt wronged by him.

Is this “adapting to a working environment” to you?

I see employee abuse.

hruzgar,

This might sound like im a fan boy but i just can’t imagine Linus doing that. She already was in such bad from all the stuff. She might have made it up to be something really big without it being that as well

snor10,

Well, I guess we will have to wait and see what the external investigation results will be.

At this point it’s word against word so all we can do is wait, you trust him and I don’t.

I hope you’re right, better one liar than a whole company with an abusive work environment.

PatFussy, to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG

Why am i seeing gossip on technology? Mods should not allow these sorts of posts

Contend6248,

It’s the biggest tech outlet with major accusations, sure just ignore it.

But why post?

Polar, to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG

Let’s wait for both sides before picking. The internet has a history of the “victim” lying.

franklin,
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We shouldn’t witch hunt but this should be taken very seriously.

As for history of the victim lying… Never fall into this toxic mindset, even if it does happen you should never rush to this conclusion either. It’s disgusting

Polar,

Sitting here waiting for both sides is disgusting? Fuck off lol.

franklin, (edited )
@franklin@lemmy.world avatar

No implying that people in this position have a history of lying is disgusting.

It discounts and underlays the seriousness of the situations and discredits them without due process

Edit: removed personal attack, my apologies I should take issue with the content not the user

Polar,

They do. But I guess go off and be outraged without a response from both sides.

You’re a child.

franklin,
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Like I said don’t witch hunt but don’t dismiss her either, which you have tripled down on at this point.

I’m not outraged I expect due process, what grosses me out is your attitude

Polar,

My attitude of WAITING FOR BOTH SIDES TO SPEAK BECAUSE THERE’S A HISTORY OF VICTIMS LYING is disgusting?

I’m not dismissing anyone. I’m fucking waiting for both sides because of history.

I can tell you 5 content creators that were cancelled and proved with receipts they were completely innocent in the past couple years. By then, the damage was done, and people didn’t care to listen to the accused.

So ya. Call me any childish names you want because I said I want to wait for both sides.

franklin,
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No stop moving the goal posts, you said they often lie whether true or not is Irrelevant.

Given the power imbalance tactics like this have been used in the past silence people that were otherwise completely within their rights.

I’m not saying that Linus did all these things and I agree with you that there needs to be a due process what I’m taking issue with is your language.

Polar,

My original comment literally says

Let’s wait for both sides before picking.

I’m not moving any goal posts. I’m waiting. Learn to read.

franklin,
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Then you clearly do not understand the subtext that saying something like “people lie in these situations” implies.

Polar,

Ok simp.

franklin,
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I know it’s hard to acknowledge someone who taught us so much might be party to something so negative.

However we owe it to ourselves and society to hold everyone accountable with due process. You and I want the same thing.

It seems you just don’t understand the toxic shadow that subtext can cast.

We all have our own ways we need to grow.

Sorry I resorted to personal attacks.

athos77,

Please don't use personal attacks.

drekly,

Ah there’s the Tate we all knew was in there all along.

athos77,

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  • franklin,
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    Removed mine, you’re right I should take issue with the content not the user. Thank you

    athos77,

    Thank you. I'm taking down my comment.

    Nioxic,

    I think their response was covered in her post(s)… lol

    Polar,

    They’ve not responded to her. If you think what SHE is saying they said is a response, it’s not.

    drathvedro,

    Yep. There was a situation like that with LTT and Naomi Wu before, turned to be just drama.

    Hovewer, given her and LTT staff characters, I tend to believe most of what she said. Though, I expected Max to come out with it, not Madison.

    Contend6248,

    True, but the scale is completely different, Madison worked there for years and Naomi Wu was just a random idiot.

    I’m all for covering both sides and this needs to be addressed.

    worsedoughnut, to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG
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    This is the leat surprising information anyone could have told me about working for LTT/LMG. Time and time again, tech jobs and game dev jobs in workplaces run by “old internet edgelords” always (always) results in shit like this.

    CrypticFawn, (edited ) to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG
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    I always figured LTT was a boy’s club, considering how few female employees they have, but I had no idea the environment was that bad. Rather naive of me, tbh.

    Ugh, I don’t think I can continue watching anything from LTT anymore. 😭 I hope Madison is doing better these days.

    Edit: I’ve zero issues blocking bad actors. =)

    Polar,

    Maybe let both sides talk before picking a side? Or I guess you can just unsubscribe like a child.

    PeachMan,
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    Lol this fanboy

    Polar,

    Fanboy because I’m not reacting like a child before I hear both sides?

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  • Polar,

    Look up super mega.

    Matt came with receipts that showed everything he was accused of was a lie.

    frezik,

    Great. So the other 5M times women come forward like this can be ignored because one time it was proven otherwise.

    Polar,

    1 time? You’re ignorant.

    Annamasv,

    You’re the abuser enabler.

    PeachMan,
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    No, because you’ve posted SEVENTEEN TIMES today simping for Linus. You keep repeating “wait for both sides” even though Linus already responded directly to the GN piece and his response was GARBAGE, which is the main reason a lot of people are unsubscribing. Madison’s problem isn’t the only issue, it’s just another thing we’re throwing onto the pile.

    If this was a male employee you wouldn’t be arguing this hard with the accusations.

    Polar,

    If this was a male employee you wouldn’t be arguing this hard with the accusations.

    lmao. You seem to be projecting.

    CrypticFawn,
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    What a stupid thing to say. Unsubbing is a mature response.

    Polar,

    Waiting for both sides to tell their story is the mature response.

    Nioxic,

    But we wont hear llts response to this… lol

    If she had several tweets of bullshit about the company, it might not have been like this 100%… but ill bet that this is just one out of several people who felt screwed working there

    CrypticFawn,
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    We already have their response though? They continue deleting comments that even bring it up. That alone should tell you everything.

    Stop licking their boots; there are better tech channels.

    sugar_in_your_tea,

    Yup. Some favorites:

    • Gamer’s Nexus - recently called out LTT for consistent technical mistakes in reviews; very high quality testing on PC hardware
    • Optimum Tech - focuses largely on SFFPCs and gaming peripherals like mice and keyboards (GN has almost no coverage on any of them)
    • The Phawx - lately lots of handhelds like AYANEO and Steam Deck, but also does lots of game performance testing and some hardware testing
    • Louis Rossmann - Right to Repair fanatic, and discussion about some tech news, usually pointing out repair-related issues
    • SomeOrdinaryGamers - a weird hodge-podge of software config (e.g. went through installing Arch, setting up PCIe passthrough for Windows gaming VMs, emulation), tech news, old school mods, and lately aliens (from a skeptic perspective)

    I’ve also liked Hardware Canucks, Hardware Unboxed, and JayzTwoCents (dropped this hard since it became ridiculous imo), but I haven’t watched anything from them in a couple years so I can’t really recommend them.

    I watch LTT a handful of times per year, and usually it’s not really my thing (more hype than content imo).

    imaqtpie,
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    Can confirm that Gamer’s Nexus and Optimum Tech are absolutely superb. You can tell those guys are doing it for the love of the game. LTT is vacuous in comparison.

    sugar_in_your_tea,

    Another I didn’t mention is Level1Techs, though they tend to focus more on server hardware and less on weird gaming tech (though they do gaming reviews as well).

    CrypticFawn,
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    Optimum Tech

    Thanks for this recommendation! I love SFF pcs.

    sugar_in_your_tea,

    His production value is fantastic as well. I hope you enjoy. :)

    Duamerthrax,

    It’s a sub. Why are you acting like unsubbing is such a terrible, immature response?

    sugar_in_your_tea,

    Exactly. OP can easily resub once each side has said their piece and OP feels comfortable that any issues were resolved.

    Duamerthrax,

    It’s also not like YouTube won’t recommend you channels that you unsub from. I had to into a 3rd party channel blocker because it kept recommending me AvE even though I very much don’t want to see that channel anymore.

    sugar_in_your_tea,

    Sure, but I can also ignore most of that by just going to my subscriptions page. I don’t mind seeing irrelevant videos, I’m just not going to click on them.

    keefshape,

    Both sides HAVE spoken. The fire was stoked by the shitty LMG response.

    UdeRecife,
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    I’m confused about your comment. Why assume it’s childish to act in a way that distances you of any drama?

    Why that us vs. them attitude of name calling someone as childish? How is that any different of the childish behaviour that is being hoisted upon in the first place?

    Perhaps that’s an indication that a side is already being chosen?

    Anyway, don’t take my comment in a wrong way. I really have no dog in this fight. I barely know who this Linus guy is. I just dislike seeing people being rude to each other, unneedingly escalating discussions by being unkind.

    sugar_in_your_tea,

    Exactly. I stopped watching LTT when I felt they produced childish content a few years ago (first it was the clickbait titles, then stupid thumbnails, then annoying ads). So I unsubbed for much less than a sexual harassment case.

    Watch other channels, there’s plenty of good content out there depending on what you’re interested in. I mostly watch Gamer’s Nexus and Optimum Tech these days for tech stuff, but there are a few others I watch with some regularity.

    traveler,

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  • CrypticFawn,
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    So you’re actually going forward to “cancel” a company

    … Did you really just insinuate that unsubbing from a channel is the same as “canceling” them? LOL

    Begone, foul troll!

    FlexibleToast,

    It’s not just the one employee though. Gamer Nexus has been calling out LTT for inaccuracies too. The ethics of LMG seem dubious at best and the are lots of other options so why keep watching LTT?

    keefshape,

    The other side has spoken, and Linus is attempting to plaster over things instead of addressing them head on.

    They have spoken. Both sides had their say. This is the reaction to that.

    chaosmode,

    Yeah they just want to change their wOrKfLoW…or something like that. To be honest, this is something that needs to be run through the justice system. If there was sexual harassment, then some people need to be tried for those crimes. This is a culture that cannot be changed along the lines that Linus Sebastian suggested. Justice needs to be served, however, I don’t think she really wants to relive this. My mother was sexually harassed by her boss (an optometrist)…it was pretty hard on her.

    keefshape,

    As someone who has self immolated in order to bring sexual assault to light… I see all the signs of darvo in the responses from LMG and Linus, and it turns my stomache.

    Nutteman,
    @Nutteman@lemmy.world avatar

    Cry me a river you fucking homonculus people have the right to decide they don’t want to watch the boys club anymore

    TheAnonymouseJoker,
    @TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml avatar

    As a cis het male, I feel offended by this “boy’s club” toxic generalisation. When you represent the queer community, you should carefully choose your words instead of labelling half the earthlings with a culture that is far, far smaller in both demographic and influence. What may be true in Western society is not true for the much larger rest of the world.

    LMG’s main audience is in US/Canada, and not as much in rest of the world, where many of us live. A lot of us use Lemmy because we find Reddit’s western culture incredibly toxic and abrasive towards Asians (me), Africans, Global South and rest of the world.

    Madison, and anyone, deserves a lot better, and I just got myself up to speed with the whole situation, which while it blows my mind, also makes me feel a lot of workplaces throughout the world have this corporate dehumanising mindset towards employees.

    I only watched LMG’s content here and there in the past year, but I can probably discard them for how bad people they are.

    priapus,

    Calling something a boys club in no way generalizes guys.

    TheAnonymouseJoker,
    @TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml avatar

    It does. Boy is a cis het male human who is growing up to be a man. We as men are generalised by queer and feminist people as one giant toxic entity, and I am not part of that. I feel offended by this. The feelings of men are just as important as that of women and trans people, and we all are supposed to be equal beings worthy of respect.

    There exist fanatical groups like Proud Boys, but in no way is “boy’s club” the same as that connotation presented above.

    ComradeGiraffe,

    Boy is a cis het male human who is growing up to be a man.

    No? I don’t see why a boy couldn’t be gay, for example.

    TheAnonymouseJoker,
    @TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml avatar

    <1% of global population statistics where people identify as nonbinary says otherwise. Most cis males end up growing as cis het males, and not mtf non-binary. A boy could be gay, but less than 1 out of 100 are.

    hedgehog,

    What? Roughly 7% of men in Western culture are not heterosexual. Across the rest of the world, 3-20% of men (depending on region) have had sex with men.

    Recent figures for young adults (i.e., 18-29) identifying as trans / non-binary in the US are in the ~5% area, which suggests that figures historically would have been higher had there been more cultural awareness and acceptance. Source: pewresearch.org/…/about-5-of-young-adults-in-the-…

    Source for the sexuality claim (quote below): …wikipedia.org/…/Demographics_of_sexual_orientati…

    “Surveys in Western cultures find, on average, that about 93% of men and 87% of women identify as completely heterosexual, 4% of men and 10% of women as mostly heterosexual, 0.5% of men and 1% of women as evenly bisexual, 0.5% of men and 0.5% of women as mostly homosexual, and 2% of men and 0.5% of women as completely homosexual.[1] An analysis of 67 studies found that the lifetime prevalence of sex between men (regardless of orientation) was 3–5% for East Asia, 6–12% for South and South East Asia, 6–15% for Eastern Europe, and 6–20% for Latin America.[4] The International HIV/AIDS Alliance estimates a worldwide prevalence of men who have sex with men between 3 and 16 percent.[5]”

    priapus,

    It’s a boys club because its a club that only accepts boys. Its genuinly that simple. A girls club would be one that only accepts girls. There is no generalization happening. This is some real incel shit you’re on, and thats a pipeline you should get off.

    TheAnonymouseJoker,
    @TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml avatar

    I am not sure if there is any “incel” vibe to pointing out these labels that are very much part of patriarchy. Selective patriarchy cannot be utilised, if the goal is to dismantle it.

    “Boy’s club” is a notion that affirms all cis het males are bigots, and is a word born out of binary gender patriarchy. This is the primary reason why this label is used. Using it in itself is a form of bigotry, no matter if you like it or not, since linguistics and contextual grammar works in only one way, and that way is same for all of us.

    Default_Defect,
    @Default_Defect@midwest.social avatar

    Its definitely a commonly used name for the mindset they are describing. There’s nothing to try to defend. As another cis het male, “the boy’s club” is nothing to aspire to, unless of course, the goal is to belittle and victimize women.

    TheAnonymouseJoker,
    @TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml avatar

    “Boy’s club” is just as bad as “girl’s club”, since those are both mindsets and spaces born out of binary gender system values. Neither is to be aspired for, but one of them gets more flak for arbitrary reasons. These labels need to stop being used in order to condemn and purge the binary gender values and in order to make society more inclusive. Anyone using these labels bolsters patriarchal values.

    Default_Defect,
    @Default_Defect@midwest.social avatar

    At least in a stereotypical sense, the girls club is generally a group of women talking shit about other people behind their backs, sometimes bullying other women to their faces. You don’t commonly hear about a workplace of mainly women sexually harassing the few men to the point of self harm or raping them.

    The labels may be borne of patriarchal values, but the mind sets of the people IN these groups are too. In my opinion, you’re simply denying reality in favor of a progressive idea of how it should be.

    TheAnonymouseJoker,
    @TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml avatar

    Reality is that we live in a binary gender patriarchal system, and we are ultimately denying it and changing it. The issue I am pointing out is that even queer people like parent commenter are utilising these patriarchal labels, intentionally or otherwise, and that they are clearly not on the correct path to bolstering inclusivity by pushing boys/men away. Maybe I overestimate people.

    AceCephalon,
    @AceCephalon@pawb.social avatar

    The term “boy’s club” here is really not generalizing “men” or “boys” as a whole, but rather it’s by its usage criticizing the specific group mentality it describes, that of a group of “boys” who treat women with less respect than each other, or otherwise exclude said women, as in at least some cultures is common from some generally younger “boys” who haven’t really matured past a mentality usually developed from a young age, because they lack the experience to know it’s wrong.

    priapus,

    You’re misconstruing the meaning and intent of the phrase to support your argument. It in no way implies or affirms that all cis het males are bigots, only the males it is directly being used against. Similarly, calling a man a misogynist does not mean that all men are misogynists.

    SeaJ,

    It’s a lot of techies and IT guys. Sadly it’s basically expected that there will be a toxic environment for women. It’s HR’s job to put a stop to that shit so the company does not get sued. However, when the boss’ wife is the head of HR and the boss is the one allowing the toxic environment, it gets swept under the rug until it becomes a huge issue.

    Shepstr, (edited )

    She isn’t the head of HR.

    Downvote if you want, but it is true.

    rammer,
    @rammer@sopuli.xyz avatar

    She isn’t anymore. She was previously.

    Shepstr,

    Yeah, I believe when the company was a lot smaller.

    Wolfram, to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG

    It seems they may be deleting comments urging them to address Madison’s experience on their apology video too.

    cradac,
    @cradac@feddit.de avatar

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  • PCurd,

    It shows up for me (although I have already watched it if that changes how it works)

    magnor,
    @magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh avatar

    Don’t think so I can see it.

    magnor,
    @magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh avatar

    Do you have proof of that. Cause if true this is really bad.

    SeaJ,

    I think they were early on. I caught the comments within an hour of the video being posted before there were a gazillion comments and after hitting refresh, the initial comments with mentions of Madison were gone. There were some more, refreshed again and any of them older than 10 minutes were gone. By the time I made a couple comments, the comments seemed to be sticking around.

    ksynwa, to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG
    @ksynwa@lemmygrad.ml avatar

    How come anytime I read about this guy it always involves his groupies sending death threats?

    shiveyarbles, to technology in Madison Reeves on why she left LMG

    Seems like a real shit hole place to work

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